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[–] 30 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

This seems demeaning and reductionist to both men AND women, which I feel is like an achievement in itself. Well done.

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  • [+] -6 points 16 hours ago* (2 children)

    It is specifically reductionist and true almost always, so I don't consider that demeaning. Everyone wants to think they are more complex or considering but most innate decisions just aren't. People just are delusional and not introspective at all.

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  • [–] 6 points 13 hours ago

    It sounds like you have let your negative experiences taint your worldview.

    It's not uncommon. My wife was cheated on a bunch, so it's very hard for her to accept that I have no interest in other women.

    If you've experienced a bunch of rejection by men over your looks, it would also very hard to not assume that every man thinks this way.

    Both are mostly just confirmation bias, though.

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