you realize it's incredibly common for folks to do this? of any gender?

i broke up with most of my exes because they false presented themselves to me. they saw absolutely nothing wrong with it, and to them I was the one who was awful and terrible for not 'loving and accepting them for who they really are'. i had one ex who specific said 'you'd have never dated me if i had told you the truth'.

was I sexually assaulted by those women? who deliberately lied to me to have sex and engage in a relationship with me?

I don't think very many people would consider what they did as sexual assault.

The difference is most of them don't believe in any of it. It's just entertaining to them. Find ten people who say like astrology and ask them to make base a life deciding event on it all 10 of them will make the decision on factors outside of astrology.

An easy way to tell, if they ask what month you were born in, they don't believe in astrology... As the months don't line up with the stars.