Blegh. So much loaded language. A MAN said one thing in reference to something a WOMAN said. How dare he.
IMO sex should always be with some one special to you, it's not respecting your own body to just go fuck whoever. That's my perspective on it, I'm not calling those that disagree with it a whore but it's how I feel people should treat their own body. Why take on the various risks of sex with some random person you don't care about? At that point why not just Jack or Jill yourself. And yes, that applies to men too - which I assume will blow your mind. Similar to how I think people should eat healthy foods.. those that don't aren't morally wrong they just aren't setting themselves up for success and IMO making a mistake.
I agree most western cultures put too much emphasis on female virginity, catholicism stands out, but IMO you've gone way too far in the opposite direction into "sex literally has no cost" which is factually wrong.