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[–] 257 points 19 hours ago (26 children)

I'm a guy and this is me with my friends. Every time we hang out they have such boomer attitudes about their wives, one is even convinced that I'm gonna get divorced just because he did and views all marriages that way. It's depressing, but there is one friend in the group who agrees with me that our wives are our best friends and soulmates.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 hours ago

    My best friend was convinced that my ex wanted to get pregnant even though we'd been together for years and she had zero desire to have children. Nothing I said convinced him. I really don't get it because it's just not that uncommon anymore for people to not want kids.

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  • [–] 13 points 11 hours ago

    I work in IT. Every time more than a handful of IT folks get together the talk always turns towards how shitty their wives are/were before the divorce.

    Or the wife is framed as someone who keeps them from buying tech stuff ("I'd like to upgrade my homelab, but the purchasing department keeps turning me down! Har har").

    I'm just sitting here with a lovely wife who trusts me to spend money on what we need to keep the tech stuff working.

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  • [–] 81 points 17 hours ago (1 child)

    I've had the opposite experience. A few year ago a bunch of the guys I hung out with in college got together at a Wurstfest (German festival every November in Bew Braunfels, Texas), and got super drunk. All the married guys were talking about how they just loved their wives so much.

    It was super wholesome.

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  • [–] 24 points 15 hours ago

    German festival every November in Bew Braunfels, Texas

    Oh man, I was expecting a town in Germany and nearly broke my brain trying to pronounce "Bew Braunfels" in German.

    Then I read the "Texas". πŸ˜…

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  • [–] 75 points 18 hours ago (10 children)

    I remember seeing here on Lemmy a while back that a good boyfriend/girlfriend is a best friend where there is also an erotic angle.

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  • [–] 96 points 17 hours ago (5 children)

    an erotic angle.

    Or at least a cute one

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  • [–] 18 points 16 hours ago* (2 children)

    As one of the ancient poets once said

    How can we be loves if we can’t be friends?

    • Michael Bolton, 1989
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  • [–] 44 points 17 hours ago* (7 children)

    one is even convinced that I’m gonna get divorced just because he did and views all marriages that way

    Classic Divorced Guy

    there is one friend in the group who agrees with me that our wives are our best friends and soulmates

    Wife and I joke about how we can never get divorced because it would be too awkward when we kept hanging out as friends.

    But we also have a friend couple that did get divorced, and still hang out regularly on very good terms.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 hours ago

    My parents vacation together 4 to 5 times a year (pensioners), all 4 of them are great friends. It's so cute but a little bit wild, because during the last years of their marriage they really didn't get along and I remember that time vividly.

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  • [–] 23 points 17 hours ago (4 children)

    But we also have a friend couple that did get divorced, and still hang out regularly on very good terms.

    Some people are just better as friends than lovers and I think that's awesome if they can figure that out before doing irreparable damage to said friendship.

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  • [–] 12 points 12 hours ago (1 child)

    I have a pretty significant ex, and it certainly took some introspection and painful internal work, but I eventually was able to hang out with them again and still really value their friendship; I even invited them to my wedding, and attended theirs in kind.

    As I saw it, this person was my best friend for the majority of six years together, and I didn't want to totally discard that part of myself that had that friendship, even if the romantic relationship didn't ultimately work out.

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  • [–] 16 points 16 hours ago (1 child)

    Same here

    After a few beers I usually just try to hold back the question why they're even together with their wife, if they're so unhappy with her

    I do get, that some people just need to vent, but I don't have anything bad to say about my wife.
    She loves this piece of shit, that I am. In my eyes she is an absolute saint

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