▲ 361 ▼ This crazy assassin character, who doesn't know what shampoo is, somehow would bother shaving her armpits (thelemmy.club) submitted 5 days ago by sanitation@lemmy.today to c/mildlyinfuriating@lemmy.world 220 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works -4 points 5 days ago (1 child) The discussion isn't around the differences in people's body hair. It's about media's representation of women's bodies. Your comment would have more of a point if it was commonplace to see unshaved women in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 10 points 5 days ago (2 children) If it was common place to see unshaved women then my comment wouldn’t have made any damn sense. My comment is only relevant because there are people who don’t shave and yet still look like they do. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -16 points 5 days ago (2 children) Anyway I just had a tangential thought: my opinion of women showing off their armpit hair is identical to how I would feel about anyone who never wipes their ass after they shit. Both equally vomit-inducing. Just my opinion. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Armpit hair isn't the equivalent of literal shit. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Need I repeat, IN MY OPINION, both armpit hair & shitty butt cracks are equally hygienically disgusting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago (1 child) Some thoughts are better left inside your head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -7 points 5 days ago (1 child) You can go back to reddit if you thrive on censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago You can go back to reddit if you don't want your bad takes challenged. permalink fedilink source parent [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 child) Only women? Not men? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) Body hair is normal on men. But if they want to remove it, that's fine too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) It's not like it's a beard, though, it's normal on all adults. I personally don't like it on anybody, appreciate grooming but saying it's only disgusting on women is so strange. The worst for me is guy pit hair with deodorant stuck to it, I never see that on women. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 2 days ago I'm a woman and I got full body laser hair removal 20 years ago. That's my personal preference & opinion about body hair on women. Clean and sleek and feminine. Men can do whatever they want. I don't care. I guess the men I've dated / married didn't have much body hair, and I probably wouldn't be attracted to men who have tons of body hair. I think I've even dated a couple of men who had full body laser hair removal too. That was nice. But that's just how he already was when I met him. permalink fedilink source parent [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -5 points 5 days ago (1 child) The most likely reason the actress was portrayed as unshaven was because women are overwhelmingly presented as hairless in media. Not because some people have naturally light hair. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) OK, nothing I have said is against that point. So your point is fuck me for adding to the conversation or what? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) I already explained why I replied to your comment - the reason this actress is portrayed as hairless is because we live in a patriarchal society that has strict gender expressions for women and that includes being hairless. I wish that the conversation could be around the differences in people's bodies instead of the media presenting a very specific image of how women are supposed to present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I started this thread talking about body hair differences you’re the one who tried to change the subject. Be the change you want to see in the world. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] velma@sh.itjust.works -9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Be the change you want to see in the world. I am. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) How? You described wanting to live in a world where we could talk about body hair differences and yet you’re the person who wasn’t talking about body hair differences. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 10 points 5 days ago (2 children) If it was common place to see unshaved women then my comment wouldn’t have made any damn sense. My comment is only relevant because there are people who don’t shave and yet still look like they do. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -16 points 5 days ago (2 children) Anyway I just had a tangential thought: my opinion of women showing off their armpit hair is identical to how I would feel about anyone who never wipes their ass after they shit. Both equally vomit-inducing. Just my opinion. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Armpit hair isn't the equivalent of literal shit. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Need I repeat, IN MY OPINION, both armpit hair & shitty butt cracks are equally hygienically disgusting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago (1 child) Some thoughts are better left inside your head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -7 points 5 days ago (1 child) You can go back to reddit if you thrive on censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago You can go back to reddit if you don't want your bad takes challenged. permalink fedilink source parent [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 child) Only women? Not men? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) Body hair is normal on men. But if they want to remove it, that's fine too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) It's not like it's a beard, though, it's normal on all adults. I personally don't like it on anybody, appreciate grooming but saying it's only disgusting on women is so strange. The worst for me is guy pit hair with deodorant stuck to it, I never see that on women. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 2 days ago I'm a woman and I got full body laser hair removal 20 years ago. That's my personal preference & opinion about body hair on women. Clean and sleek and feminine. Men can do whatever they want. I don't care. I guess the men I've dated / married didn't have much body hair, and I probably wouldn't be attracted to men who have tons of body hair. I think I've even dated a couple of men who had full body laser hair removal too. That was nice. But that's just how he already was when I met him. permalink fedilink source parent [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -5 points 5 days ago (1 child) The most likely reason the actress was portrayed as unshaven was because women are overwhelmingly presented as hairless in media. Not because some people have naturally light hair. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) OK, nothing I have said is against that point. So your point is fuck me for adding to the conversation or what? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) I already explained why I replied to your comment - the reason this actress is portrayed as hairless is because we live in a patriarchal society that has strict gender expressions for women and that includes being hairless. I wish that the conversation could be around the differences in people's bodies instead of the media presenting a very specific image of how women are supposed to present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I started this thread talking about body hair differences you’re the one who tried to change the subject. Be the change you want to see in the world. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] velma@sh.itjust.works -9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Be the change you want to see in the world. I am. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) How? You described wanting to live in a world where we could talk about body hair differences and yet you’re the person who wasn’t talking about body hair differences. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -16 points 5 days ago (2 children) Anyway I just had a tangential thought: my opinion of women showing off their armpit hair is identical to how I would feel about anyone who never wipes their ass after they shit. Both equally vomit-inducing. Just my opinion. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Armpit hair isn't the equivalent of literal shit. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Need I repeat, IN MY OPINION, both armpit hair & shitty butt cracks are equally hygienically disgusting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago (1 child) Some thoughts are better left inside your head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -7 points 5 days ago (1 child) You can go back to reddit if you thrive on censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago You can go back to reddit if you don't want your bad takes challenged. permalink fedilink source parent [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 child) Only women? Not men? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) Body hair is normal on men. But if they want to remove it, that's fine too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) It's not like it's a beard, though, it's normal on all adults. I personally don't like it on anybody, appreciate grooming but saying it's only disgusting on women is so strange. The worst for me is guy pit hair with deodorant stuck to it, I never see that on women. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 2 days ago I'm a woman and I got full body laser hair removal 20 years ago. That's my personal preference & opinion about body hair on women. Clean and sleek and feminine. Men can do whatever they want. I don't care. I guess the men I've dated / married didn't have much body hair, and I probably wouldn't be attracted to men who have tons of body hair. I think I've even dated a couple of men who had full body laser hair removal too. That was nice. But that's just how he already was when I met him. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Armpit hair isn't the equivalent of literal shit. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Need I repeat, IN MY OPINION, both armpit hair & shitty butt cracks are equally hygienically disgusting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago (1 child) Some thoughts are better left inside your head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -7 points 5 days ago (1 child) You can go back to reddit if you thrive on censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago You can go back to reddit if you don't want your bad takes challenged. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -8 points 5 days ago (1 child) Need I repeat, IN MY OPINION, both armpit hair & shitty butt cracks are equally hygienically disgusting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago (1 child) Some thoughts are better left inside your head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -7 points 5 days ago (1 child) You can go back to reddit if you thrive on censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago You can go back to reddit if you don't want your bad takes challenged. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago (1 child) Some thoughts are better left inside your head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -7 points 5 days ago (1 child) You can go back to reddit if you thrive on censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago You can go back to reddit if you don't want your bad takes challenged. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today -7 points 5 days ago (1 child) You can go back to reddit if you thrive on censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago You can go back to reddit if you don't want your bad takes challenged. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago You can go back to reddit if you don't want your bad takes challenged. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 child) Only women? Not men? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) Body hair is normal on men. But if they want to remove it, that's fine too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) It's not like it's a beard, though, it's normal on all adults. I personally don't like it on anybody, appreciate grooming but saying it's only disgusting on women is so strange. The worst for me is guy pit hair with deodorant stuck to it, I never see that on women. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 2 days ago I'm a woman and I got full body laser hair removal 20 years ago. That's my personal preference & opinion about body hair on women. Clean and sleek and feminine. Men can do whatever they want. I don't care. I guess the men I've dated / married didn't have much body hair, and I probably wouldn't be attracted to men who have tons of body hair. I think I've even dated a couple of men who had full body laser hair removal too. That was nice. But that's just how he already was when I met him. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) Body hair is normal on men. But if they want to remove it, that's fine too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) It's not like it's a beard, though, it's normal on all adults. I personally don't like it on anybody, appreciate grooming but saying it's only disgusting on women is so strange. The worst for me is guy pit hair with deodorant stuck to it, I never see that on women. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 2 days ago I'm a woman and I got full body laser hair removal 20 years ago. That's my personal preference & opinion about body hair on women. Clean and sleek and feminine. Men can do whatever they want. I don't care. I guess the men I've dated / married didn't have much body hair, and I probably wouldn't be attracted to men who have tons of body hair. I think I've even dated a couple of men who had full body laser hair removal too. That was nice. But that's just how he already was when I met him. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 point 3 days ago (1 child) It's not like it's a beard, though, it's normal on all adults. I personally don't like it on anybody, appreciate grooming but saying it's only disgusting on women is so strange. The worst for me is guy pit hair with deodorant stuck to it, I never see that on women. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 2 days ago I'm a woman and I got full body laser hair removal 20 years ago. That's my personal preference & opinion about body hair on women. Clean and sleek and feminine. Men can do whatever they want. I don't care. I guess the men I've dated / married didn't have much body hair, and I probably wouldn't be attracted to men who have tons of body hair. I think I've even dated a couple of men who had full body laser hair removal too. That was nice. But that's just how he already was when I met him. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today 1 point 2 days ago I'm a woman and I got full body laser hair removal 20 years ago. That's my personal preference & opinion about body hair on women. Clean and sleek and feminine. Men can do whatever they want. I don't care. I guess the men I've dated / married didn't have much body hair, and I probably wouldn't be attracted to men who have tons of body hair. I think I've even dated a couple of men who had full body laser hair removal too. That was nice. But that's just how he already was when I met him. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works -5 points 5 days ago (1 child) The most likely reason the actress was portrayed as unshaven was because women are overwhelmingly presented as hairless in media. Not because some people have naturally light hair. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) OK, nothing I have said is against that point. So your point is fuck me for adding to the conversation or what? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) I already explained why I replied to your comment - the reason this actress is portrayed as hairless is because we live in a patriarchal society that has strict gender expressions for women and that includes being hairless. I wish that the conversation could be around the differences in people's bodies instead of the media presenting a very specific image of how women are supposed to present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I started this thread talking about body hair differences you’re the one who tried to change the subject. Be the change you want to see in the world. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] velma@sh.itjust.works -9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Be the change you want to see in the world. I am. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) How? You described wanting to live in a world where we could talk about body hair differences and yet you’re the person who wasn’t talking about body hair differences. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) OK, nothing I have said is against that point. So your point is fuck me for adding to the conversation or what? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) I already explained why I replied to your comment - the reason this actress is portrayed as hairless is because we live in a patriarchal society that has strict gender expressions for women and that includes being hairless. I wish that the conversation could be around the differences in people's bodies instead of the media presenting a very specific image of how women are supposed to present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I started this thread talking about body hair differences you’re the one who tried to change the subject. Be the change you want to see in the world. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] velma@sh.itjust.works -9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Be the change you want to see in the world. I am. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) How? You described wanting to live in a world where we could talk about body hair differences and yet you’re the person who wasn’t talking about body hair differences. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) I already explained why I replied to your comment - the reason this actress is portrayed as hairless is because we live in a patriarchal society that has strict gender expressions for women and that includes being hairless. I wish that the conversation could be around the differences in people's bodies instead of the media presenting a very specific image of how women are supposed to present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I started this thread talking about body hair differences you’re the one who tried to change the subject. Be the change you want to see in the world. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] velma@sh.itjust.works -9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Be the change you want to see in the world. I am. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) How? You described wanting to live in a world where we could talk about body hair differences and yet you’re the person who wasn’t talking about body hair differences. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I started this thread talking about body hair differences you’re the one who tried to change the subject. Be the change you want to see in the world. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] velma@sh.itjust.works -9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Be the change you want to see in the world. I am. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) How? You described wanting to live in a world where we could talk about body hair differences and yet you’re the person who wasn’t talking about body hair differences. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[+] velma@sh.itjust.works -9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Be the change you want to see in the world. I am. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) How? You described wanting to live in a world where we could talk about body hair differences and yet you’re the person who wasn’t talking about body hair differences. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago (1 child) How? You described wanting to live in a world where we could talk about body hair differences and yet you’re the person who wasn’t talking about body hair differences. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works -2 points 5 days ago (1 child) Because this actress was still portrayed as hairless despite the circumstances the show set up. Show me where it's normalized to show women with body hair in media. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) Fun fact: I don’t have to show you shit to leave a comment talking about my spouse’s nearly transparent arm hair. Seriously, are you doing OK? In the last couple of weeks I have noticed you seeming to be ultra pedantic and quick to get into cyclical arguments. Maybe I just didn’t notice it before because I didn’t disagree with whatever you were commenting. IDK. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I took your initial comment as defending the show's choice to continue to push the narrative that it's normal for all women to be hairless. Considering another commenter came in to say that armpit hair is the same as ass hair caked in literal shit, yeah, I'm being a little defensive. I'm sorry. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago (1 child) I am also guilty of jumping to the defense of things and making assumptions. I appreciate your apology and I hope you have a great day! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 days ago Thanks for accepting it and I hope you have a good day, too! permalink fedilink source parent
