The whole real men don't play video games is also unhealthy nonsense constantly pushed by toxic members of our society

https://www.aol.com/articles/dating-coach-reveals-why-video-181930000.html

Honestly this is a contrived conversation, but I don't think the guys answer is that far off of a healthy response. It is important to shutdown this type of behavior when it happens.

https://blog.couplestherapistla.com/ultimatums-dont-work-do-this-instead/

She would be much better off just saying, "When you ignore me or your chores by playing video games it makes me feel like you don't care about the work it takes to maintain our home and relationship."