▲ 481 ▼ Jesse Watters jokes about raping women after Hegseths new 'Testosterone Efficiency' policy is implemented (x.com) submitted 1 month ago by velma@sh.itjust.works to c/crazyfuckingvideos@lemmy.world 126 comments fedilink hide all child comments "Women on base, you better be careful. Port calls, women in Asia, you better be careful. Because these guys are going to be wild animals and you better watch out."
[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 110 points 1 month ago (71 children) "women on base, you better watch out" Straight men are getting more unfuckable every single day, holy shit permalink fedilink source hideshow 71 child comments replies: [–] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 37 points 1 month ago As a straight guy, I can’t disagree. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Aneb@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago (1 child) When I came out as gay 8 years ago to my mom she promised me I would never have happy and fulfilling marriage. Knowing my mom mostly knows only straight men, I can 100% confirm she is right if I was picking from her pool. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago All the men I know are good for you permalink fedilink source parent [–] Test_Tickles@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago (11 children) While I am not going to disagree about your conclusion, I am going to say that lumping this psychopathic rapist in with the average straight man is just about as inaccurate as claiming that he is an average American, or average human. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] Lyrl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 month ago (7 children) It takes only a small amount of risk to make an activity a bad choice. If 5% of people who walk through a neighborhood are mugged, anyone with a choice will avoid walking in that neighborhood, even though an overwhelming majority of 95% would be fine. The calculation around dating is similar. If there is a 3% chance going somewhere private with a guy would result in nonconsensual sexual activity, it's not worth doing. Not fair for the 97% or whatever of guys who have normal behavior boundaries, but life isn't fair. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] baines@lemmy.cafe 4 points 1 month ago (1 child) this is literally the kind of logic used by racist companies to deny minorities work permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply) load more comments (5 replies) [–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago (1 child) Na bro theyre 100% correct, at least here in America, us straight men are a fucking catastrophe. And yes im much better than the average one because i don't condone rape culture, but im part of the minority here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works [S] 4 points 1 month ago <3 permalink fedilink source parent [+] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 1 month ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago It's not doing us any favors when they're creating government policies specifically to push the boulder downhill even faster. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FatVegan@leminal.space 12 points 1 month ago (1 child) My girlfriend is 39 years old, she keeps telling me that she never felt so good around a men he whole life when she's with me. I keep thinking how sad that is, but at the same time, i don't like being around men either. I like my friends, but at work, as soon as some guy i don't know talks a bunch, i keep wondering at what point is he gonna say something disgusti... Ah there it is. I'm not perfect by any means, but even when i was around 16 and started working, and geard these gross comments from my co workers, i kept thinking: i can't wait unti i'm an adult and don't find these comments gross as fuck. Apparently i never became a real man. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago Yeah my sister is engaged to a guy who treats her very well and they're both wildly in love with one another, his family has totally taken her in. It can happen. I just think most women are doing the math and realizing there aren't enough guys out there who are worth being married to to go around, and don't think the gamble is worth it. The tide is going the wrong direction but there are people out there not getting swept away. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Beth@piefed.social 10 points 1 month ago (2 children) I don’t even bother dating. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments load more comments (2 replies) [–] velma@sh.itjust.works [S] 8 points 1 month ago (29 children) This shook out so many "not all men" comments lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 29 child comments replies: [–] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago* (28 children) Trying to blame this on all men (not sure why gay men are exempted?) instead of on Republicans is a great way to alienate a large portion of potential allies. Next time a woman says something stupid on Fox News it is time to blame all women? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 28 child comments replies: [–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 month ago (1 child) Many women (mothers, girlfriends, sisters, classmates) also play a major role in creating the warped masculinity that Watters is fantasizing about. So if you're looking for blame, it goes all over the place, including on closeted queer men like Lindsay Graham and Pete Hegseth and Jesse Waters and Andrew Tate and Ben Shapiro. If you've heard someone taking about Rape Culture and thought to yourself "I don't even know what that is", you can always watch that video again and notice how all three other people on set calmly wait for him to finish, including the woman seated directly to his right. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 4 points 1 month ago My dad mom is great example. My sister went to her for help with dad's abuse and basically said just take it and pray for him. Just kept enabling it with no consequence. permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (26 replies) [–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (5 children) I would argue that I don't agree with Jesse Waters or Pete Hegseth and am still somewhat fuckable, although I understand why you feel that way. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago (1 child) I like big bowls of soup and animal-spirit-affinity-based divination, so if you asked I'd probably go have a bowl of peyote ramen with you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago I'm diabetic so I can't really do ramen but maybe some other form of peyote soup permalink fedilink source parent [–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago (1 child) I think you're very fuckable good sir. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 1 point 1 month ago Aw shucks, thank you permalink fedilink source parent [–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago* Then you dont have to identify as the average straight man lol permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (14 replies)
[–] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 37 points 1 month ago As a straight guy, I can’t disagree. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Aneb@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago (1 child) When I came out as gay 8 years ago to my mom she promised me I would never have happy and fulfilling marriage. Knowing my mom mostly knows only straight men, I can 100% confirm she is right if I was picking from her pool. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago All the men I know are good for you permalink fedilink source parent
[–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago All the men I know are good for you permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Test_Tickles@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago (11 children) While I am not going to disagree about your conclusion, I am going to say that lumping this psychopathic rapist in with the average straight man is just about as inaccurate as claiming that he is an average American, or average human. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] Lyrl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 month ago (7 children) It takes only a small amount of risk to make an activity a bad choice. If 5% of people who walk through a neighborhood are mugged, anyone with a choice will avoid walking in that neighborhood, even though an overwhelming majority of 95% would be fine. The calculation around dating is similar. If there is a 3% chance going somewhere private with a guy would result in nonconsensual sexual activity, it's not worth doing. Not fair for the 97% or whatever of guys who have normal behavior boundaries, but life isn't fair. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] baines@lemmy.cafe 4 points 1 month ago (1 child) this is literally the kind of logic used by racist companies to deny minorities work permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply) load more comments (5 replies) [–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago (1 child) Na bro theyre 100% correct, at least here in America, us straight men are a fucking catastrophe. And yes im much better than the average one because i don't condone rape culture, but im part of the minority here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works [S] 4 points 1 month ago <3 permalink fedilink source parent [+] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 1 month ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lyrl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 month ago (7 children) It takes only a small amount of risk to make an activity a bad choice. If 5% of people who walk through a neighborhood are mugged, anyone with a choice will avoid walking in that neighborhood, even though an overwhelming majority of 95% would be fine. The calculation around dating is similar. If there is a 3% chance going somewhere private with a guy would result in nonconsensual sexual activity, it's not worth doing. Not fair for the 97% or whatever of guys who have normal behavior boundaries, but life isn't fair. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] baines@lemmy.cafe 4 points 1 month ago (1 child) this is literally the kind of logic used by racist companies to deny minorities work permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply) load more comments (5 replies)
[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 4 points 1 month ago (1 child) this is literally the kind of logic used by racist companies to deny minorities work permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply)
[–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago (1 child) Na bro theyre 100% correct, at least here in America, us straight men are a fucking catastrophe. And yes im much better than the average one because i don't condone rape culture, but im part of the minority here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] velma@sh.itjust.works [S] 4 points 1 month ago <3 permalink fedilink source parent
[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago It's not doing us any favors when they're creating government policies specifically to push the boulder downhill even faster. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 12 points 1 month ago (1 child) My girlfriend is 39 years old, she keeps telling me that she never felt so good around a men he whole life when she's with me. I keep thinking how sad that is, but at the same time, i don't like being around men either. I like my friends, but at work, as soon as some guy i don't know talks a bunch, i keep wondering at what point is he gonna say something disgusti... Ah there it is. I'm not perfect by any means, but even when i was around 16 and started working, and geard these gross comments from my co workers, i kept thinking: i can't wait unti i'm an adult and don't find these comments gross as fuck. Apparently i never became a real man. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago Yeah my sister is engaged to a guy who treats her very well and they're both wildly in love with one another, his family has totally taken her in. It can happen. I just think most women are doing the math and realizing there aren't enough guys out there who are worth being married to to go around, and don't think the gamble is worth it. The tide is going the wrong direction but there are people out there not getting swept away. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago Yeah my sister is engaged to a guy who treats her very well and they're both wildly in love with one another, his family has totally taken her in. It can happen. I just think most women are doing the math and realizing there aren't enough guys out there who are worth being married to to go around, and don't think the gamble is worth it. The tide is going the wrong direction but there are people out there not getting swept away. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Beth@piefed.social 10 points 1 month ago (2 children) I don’t even bother dating. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments load more comments (2 replies)
[–] velma@sh.itjust.works [S] 8 points 1 month ago (29 children) This shook out so many "not all men" comments lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 29 child comments replies: [–] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago* (28 children) Trying to blame this on all men (not sure why gay men are exempted?) instead of on Republicans is a great way to alienate a large portion of potential allies. Next time a woman says something stupid on Fox News it is time to blame all women? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 28 child comments replies: [–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 month ago (1 child) Many women (mothers, girlfriends, sisters, classmates) also play a major role in creating the warped masculinity that Watters is fantasizing about. So if you're looking for blame, it goes all over the place, including on closeted queer men like Lindsay Graham and Pete Hegseth and Jesse Waters and Andrew Tate and Ben Shapiro. If you've heard someone taking about Rape Culture and thought to yourself "I don't even know what that is", you can always watch that video again and notice how all three other people on set calmly wait for him to finish, including the woman seated directly to his right. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 4 points 1 month ago My dad mom is great example. My sister went to her for help with dad's abuse and basically said just take it and pray for him. Just kept enabling it with no consequence. permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (26 replies)
[–] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago* (28 children) Trying to blame this on all men (not sure why gay men are exempted?) instead of on Republicans is a great way to alienate a large portion of potential allies. Next time a woman says something stupid on Fox News it is time to blame all women? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 28 child comments replies: [–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 month ago (1 child) Many women (mothers, girlfriends, sisters, classmates) also play a major role in creating the warped masculinity that Watters is fantasizing about. So if you're looking for blame, it goes all over the place, including on closeted queer men like Lindsay Graham and Pete Hegseth and Jesse Waters and Andrew Tate and Ben Shapiro. If you've heard someone taking about Rape Culture and thought to yourself "I don't even know what that is", you can always watch that video again and notice how all three other people on set calmly wait for him to finish, including the woman seated directly to his right. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 4 points 1 month ago My dad mom is great example. My sister went to her for help with dad's abuse and basically said just take it and pray for him. Just kept enabling it with no consequence. permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (26 replies)
[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 month ago (1 child) Many women (mothers, girlfriends, sisters, classmates) also play a major role in creating the warped masculinity that Watters is fantasizing about. So if you're looking for blame, it goes all over the place, including on closeted queer men like Lindsay Graham and Pete Hegseth and Jesse Waters and Andrew Tate and Ben Shapiro. If you've heard someone taking about Rape Culture and thought to yourself "I don't even know what that is", you can always watch that video again and notice how all three other people on set calmly wait for him to finish, including the woman seated directly to his right. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 4 points 1 month ago My dad mom is great example. My sister went to her for help with dad's abuse and basically said just take it and pray for him. Just kept enabling it with no consequence. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 4 points 1 month ago My dad mom is great example. My sister went to her for help with dad's abuse and basically said just take it and pray for him. Just kept enabling it with no consequence. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (5 children) I would argue that I don't agree with Jesse Waters or Pete Hegseth and am still somewhat fuckable, although I understand why you feel that way. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago (1 child) I like big bowls of soup and animal-spirit-affinity-based divination, so if you asked I'd probably go have a bowl of peyote ramen with you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago I'm diabetic so I can't really do ramen but maybe some other form of peyote soup permalink fedilink source parent [–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago (1 child) I think you're very fuckable good sir. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 1 point 1 month ago Aw shucks, thank you permalink fedilink source parent [–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago* Then you dont have to identify as the average straight man lol permalink fedilink source parent
[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago (1 child) I like big bowls of soup and animal-spirit-affinity-based divination, so if you asked I'd probably go have a bowl of peyote ramen with you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago I'm diabetic so I can't really do ramen but maybe some other form of peyote soup permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago I'm diabetic so I can't really do ramen but maybe some other form of peyote soup permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago (1 child) I think you're very fuckable good sir. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 1 point 1 month ago Aw shucks, thank you permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 1 point 1 month ago Aw shucks, thank you permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago* Then you dont have to identify as the average straight man lol permalink fedilink source parent