My girlfriend is 39 years old, she keeps telling me that she never felt so good around a men he whole life when she's with me. I keep thinking how sad that is, but at the same time, i don't like being around men either. I like my friends, but at work, as soon as some guy i don't know talks a bunch, i keep wondering at what point is he gonna say something disgusti... Ah there it is. I'm not perfect by any means, but even when i was around 16 and started working, and geard these gross comments from my co workers, i kept thinking: i can't wait unti i'm an adult and don't find these comments gross as fuck. Apparently i never became a real man.