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It probably helped a lot that I was 19 and had nothing going for me in southern Indiana.
Asked a friend of mine if he was interested in moving too, and he was. I found somebody with an apartment listing on the then-new Craigslist and mailed them a check, then my buddy and I crammed everything we could into my Ford Escort. We stopped to get a little sleep just after Albuquerque.
Advice: don't make that drive in two days, it should be three. It is so fucking long to drive.
Challenges: apparently Texas' highway speed limits go down at night, and (at least at the time) the signs don't indicate this. I got pulled over for going 75 in a 65 at ~2AM, right next a sign that said the limit was 75. Fuck Texas!
Actual advice: spend some time seriously considering what needs to come with. Most things are just things, they can be replaced. Don't let your things weigh you down.
Yeah the long drives wear on you. I did 700 miles in a day and wished I stopped a couple.hundred Earlier that day.