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[-] grue@lemmy.world 25 points 17 hours ago

It's not so much the getting hurt itself that needs to happen, but being put in situations where you could get hurt so that you learn to evaluate risk.

[-] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 9 points 13 hours ago

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10671218/

Adults who can recall experiences of ultimate freedom to play in their own childhoods find it difficult to give their own children the same room for exploration [10]. In this context, research shows that if children are free to select the level of risk in their play activities, they will frequently choose a higher level than the guiding adult would predict and consider acceptable [11]. A lack of opportunities for risky and challenging play has negative consequences for becoming a healthy adult, such as learning to trust oneself, recognizing one’s limits, and knowing when it is better to ask for support [12].

[-] runner_g@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 hours ago

My dad always said my sister and I both graduated top of the class from the School of Hard Knocks.

[-] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago

My aunt used to say that children’s souls didn’t fully anchor into their bodies until they’d fallen hard on their heads for the first time.

She’s Hungarian, I don’t know if that’s like a cultural myth to make people feel better about dropping their kids or just her own thing.

[-] Jesus_666@lemmy.world 12 points 15 hours ago

Getting hurt a little bit is very useful.

I've forgotten about plenty of situations where things could've gone wrong but didn't but I can still vividly remember accidentally hitting myself in the dick with my bike handle.

(Since I know someone will want to know: I misjudged my speed and the impact a wet wheel had on my braking power. When I noticed I was going too fast to take a corner I braked and the front brake locked the wheel immediately. Inertia did the rest.)

That and a (thankfully merely scary) run-in with aquaplaning a few years later taught me to be wary of wet driving conditions, especially of braking in them.

[-] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

That last bit is why I think every new driver needs to spend a few hours on a skid pad.

this post was submitted on 20 Jun 2026
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