▲ 353 ▼ World Cup tourists aren’t leaving tips — and restaurants are fighting back (nypost.com) submitted 2 months ago by stumu415@lemmy.zip to c/world@lemmy.world 627 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 2 months ago (2 children) Or, don't eat places that don't pay their workers permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] wjrii@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 child) I mean, that’s a better choice than “fuck my waiter, specifically and today, while not affecting his bosses’ bottom line at all.” permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago Yep. Continuing to patronize that establishment, whether or not you tip, perpetuates tipping culture. permalink fedilink source parent [+] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com -7 points 2 months ago (1 child) Yes. Those are your choices. Either A) don't eat places that don't pay their workers Or B) Tip at the place you chose to go to that relies on tips. It's literally that simple. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 months ago* (1 child) And as a tourist, how do I find out if a place pays their workers? Talk to the manager before I enter a restaurant? That's none of my business. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 2 months ago (1 child) Talk to the worker, or ask any random person you meet, even another patron. "Excusé moi how you say do we tip here?" They'll tell you honestly. It is your business as the customer in the transaction, it isn't your business if you don't go in. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. I expect the local residents and politicians to handle those matters. As a guest, I wouldn't interfere in political issues like that; it would be completely inappropriate. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs. This applies to museums and shops, as well as restaurants. I don't want to spend my vacation conducting extensive investigations and research every time I spend money to see if the company pays its employees fairly. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? YES. That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Worker solidarity is rude? Well that's fine, go. THEN TIP. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. Yes it is, if you go to that country. It isn't your place if you stay the fuck home, outlander. Otherwise observe the customs of where you travel. You must be British, I've heard people internationally hate them more than Americans and I'm betting your attitude is why. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs OH, so you will leave when it's a disreputable exploitative business? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Ah yeah, right. Why would you bother with consistency, you don't need that for a FAKE moral high ground. Gtfo, we don't want you here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 point 2 months ago* (1 child) It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. If a place is overpriced, I don't buy there. If there is an option to pay more voluntarily to express satisfaction, I regularly do so with an amount of tip that seems appropriate to me in that moment. However, it is not my job to pay the workers or to champion their rights while I am on vacation; that is nonsense. Either their salary is included in the price of the product or not, that's definitely NOT my business to care for that because I don't run their business. I'm a customer and guest and I pay for all the service. But the price has to be quoted in advance, I don't accept hidden costs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. Good then that means you won't go at all. That's even better. However, it is not my job to pay the workers If you go to a restaurant that relies on tips, yes it is. You chose to go there, and that is how 8t works there. Just go to a place without tips that pays fair, problem solved. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] wjrii@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 child) I mean, that’s a better choice than “fuck my waiter, specifically and today, while not affecting his bosses’ bottom line at all.” permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago Yep. Continuing to patronize that establishment, whether or not you tip, perpetuates tipping culture. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago Yep. Continuing to patronize that establishment, whether or not you tip, perpetuates tipping culture. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com -7 points 2 months ago (1 child) Yes. Those are your choices. Either A) don't eat places that don't pay their workers Or B) Tip at the place you chose to go to that relies on tips. It's literally that simple. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 months ago* (1 child) And as a tourist, how do I find out if a place pays their workers? Talk to the manager before I enter a restaurant? That's none of my business. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 2 months ago (1 child) Talk to the worker, or ask any random person you meet, even another patron. "Excusé moi how you say do we tip here?" They'll tell you honestly. It is your business as the customer in the transaction, it isn't your business if you don't go in. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. I expect the local residents and politicians to handle those matters. As a guest, I wouldn't interfere in political issues like that; it would be completely inappropriate. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs. This applies to museums and shops, as well as restaurants. I don't want to spend my vacation conducting extensive investigations and research every time I spend money to see if the company pays its employees fairly. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? YES. That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Worker solidarity is rude? Well that's fine, go. THEN TIP. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. Yes it is, if you go to that country. It isn't your place if you stay the fuck home, outlander. Otherwise observe the customs of where you travel. You must be British, I've heard people internationally hate them more than Americans and I'm betting your attitude is why. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs OH, so you will leave when it's a disreputable exploitative business? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Ah yeah, right. Why would you bother with consistency, you don't need that for a FAKE moral high ground. Gtfo, we don't want you here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 point 2 months ago* (1 child) It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. If a place is overpriced, I don't buy there. If there is an option to pay more voluntarily to express satisfaction, I regularly do so with an amount of tip that seems appropriate to me in that moment. However, it is not my job to pay the workers or to champion their rights while I am on vacation; that is nonsense. Either their salary is included in the price of the product or not, that's definitely NOT my business to care for that because I don't run their business. I'm a customer and guest and I pay for all the service. But the price has to be quoted in advance, I don't accept hidden costs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. Good then that means you won't go at all. That's even better. However, it is not my job to pay the workers If you go to a restaurant that relies on tips, yes it is. You chose to go there, and that is how 8t works there. Just go to a place without tips that pays fair, problem solved. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 months ago* (1 child) And as a tourist, how do I find out if a place pays their workers? Talk to the manager before I enter a restaurant? That's none of my business. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 2 months ago (1 child) Talk to the worker, or ask any random person you meet, even another patron. "Excusé moi how you say do we tip here?" They'll tell you honestly. It is your business as the customer in the transaction, it isn't your business if you don't go in. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. I expect the local residents and politicians to handle those matters. As a guest, I wouldn't interfere in political issues like that; it would be completely inappropriate. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs. This applies to museums and shops, as well as restaurants. I don't want to spend my vacation conducting extensive investigations and research every time I spend money to see if the company pays its employees fairly. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? YES. That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Worker solidarity is rude? Well that's fine, go. THEN TIP. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. Yes it is, if you go to that country. It isn't your place if you stay the fuck home, outlander. Otherwise observe the customs of where you travel. You must be British, I've heard people internationally hate them more than Americans and I'm betting your attitude is why. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs OH, so you will leave when it's a disreputable exploitative business? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Ah yeah, right. Why would you bother with consistency, you don't need that for a FAKE moral high ground. Gtfo, we don't want you here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 point 2 months ago* (1 child) It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. If a place is overpriced, I don't buy there. If there is an option to pay more voluntarily to express satisfaction, I regularly do so with an amount of tip that seems appropriate to me in that moment. However, it is not my job to pay the workers or to champion their rights while I am on vacation; that is nonsense. Either their salary is included in the price of the product or not, that's definitely NOT my business to care for that because I don't run their business. I'm a customer and guest and I pay for all the service. But the price has to be quoted in advance, I don't accept hidden costs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. Good then that means you won't go at all. That's even better. However, it is not my job to pay the workers If you go to a restaurant that relies on tips, yes it is. You chose to go there, and that is how 8t works there. Just go to a place without tips that pays fair, problem solved. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 2 months ago (1 child) Talk to the worker, or ask any random person you meet, even another patron. "Excusé moi how you say do we tip here?" They'll tell you honestly. It is your business as the customer in the transaction, it isn't your business if you don't go in. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. I expect the local residents and politicians to handle those matters. As a guest, I wouldn't interfere in political issues like that; it would be completely inappropriate. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs. This applies to museums and shops, as well as restaurants. I don't want to spend my vacation conducting extensive investigations and research every time I spend money to see if the company pays its employees fairly. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? YES. That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Worker solidarity is rude? Well that's fine, go. THEN TIP. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. Yes it is, if you go to that country. It isn't your place if you stay the fuck home, outlander. Otherwise observe the customs of where you travel. You must be British, I've heard people internationally hate them more than Americans and I'm betting your attitude is why. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs OH, so you will leave when it's a disreputable exploitative business? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Ah yeah, right. Why would you bother with consistency, you don't need that for a FAKE moral high ground. Gtfo, we don't want you here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 point 2 months ago* (1 child) It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. If a place is overpriced, I don't buy there. If there is an option to pay more voluntarily to express satisfaction, I regularly do so with an amount of tip that seems appropriate to me in that moment. However, it is not my job to pay the workers or to champion their rights while I am on vacation; that is nonsense. Either their salary is included in the price of the product or not, that's definitely NOT my business to care for that because I don't run their business. I'm a customer and guest and I pay for all the service. But the price has to be quoted in advance, I don't accept hidden costs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. Good then that means you won't go at all. That's even better. However, it is not my job to pay the workers If you go to a restaurant that relies on tips, yes it is. You chose to go there, and that is how 8t works there. Just go to a place without tips that pays fair, problem solved. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. I expect the local residents and politicians to handle those matters. As a guest, I wouldn't interfere in political issues like that; it would be completely inappropriate. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs. This applies to museums and shops, as well as restaurants. I don't want to spend my vacation conducting extensive investigations and research every time I spend money to see if the company pays its employees fairly. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? YES. That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Worker solidarity is rude? Well that's fine, go. THEN TIP. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. Yes it is, if you go to that country. It isn't your place if you stay the fuck home, outlander. Otherwise observe the customs of where you travel. You must be British, I've heard people internationally hate them more than Americans and I'm betting your attitude is why. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs OH, so you will leave when it's a disreputable exploitative business? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Ah yeah, right. Why would you bother with consistency, you don't need that for a FAKE moral high ground. Gtfo, we don't want you here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 point 2 months ago* (1 child) It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. If a place is overpriced, I don't buy there. If there is an option to pay more voluntarily to express satisfaction, I regularly do so with an amount of tip that seems appropriate to me in that moment. However, it is not my job to pay the workers or to champion their rights while I am on vacation; that is nonsense. Either their salary is included in the price of the product or not, that's definitely NOT my business to care for that because I don't run their business. I'm a customer and guest and I pay for all the service. But the price has to be quoted in advance, I don't accept hidden costs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. Good then that means you won't go at all. That's even better. However, it is not my job to pay the workers If you go to a restaurant that relies on tips, yes it is. You chose to go there, and that is how 8t works there. Just go to a place without tips that pays fair, problem solved. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago (1 child) And if I get the answer then that it’s customary here to pay 20% more than the amount on the bill, then I say "no thanks" and leave - because I have to assume then that wages aren't at a decent, humane level? YES. That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Worker solidarity is rude? Well that's fine, go. THEN TIP. I just want to go out for a meal. When I’m a guest somewhere in a foreign country, it’s certainly not my place to get involved in such sensitive issues. Yes it is, if you go to that country. It isn't your place if you stay the fuck home, outlander. Otherwise observe the customs of where you travel. You must be British, I've heard people internationally hate them more than Americans and I'm betting your attitude is why. With any reputable business where I make a purchase, I expect to be quoted a reasonable price with no hidden extra costs OH, so you will leave when it's a disreputable exploitative business? That doesn't work for me, would be rude. Ah yeah, right. Why would you bother with consistency, you don't need that for a FAKE moral high ground. Gtfo, we don't want you here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 point 2 months ago* (1 child) It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. If a place is overpriced, I don't buy there. If there is an option to pay more voluntarily to express satisfaction, I regularly do so with an amount of tip that seems appropriate to me in that moment. However, it is not my job to pay the workers or to champion their rights while I am on vacation; that is nonsense. Either their salary is included in the price of the product or not, that's definitely NOT my business to care for that because I don't run their business. I'm a customer and guest and I pay for all the service. But the price has to be quoted in advance, I don't accept hidden costs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. Good then that means you won't go at all. That's even better. However, it is not my job to pay the workers If you go to a restaurant that relies on tips, yes it is. You chose to go there, and that is how 8t works there. Just go to a place without tips that pays fair, problem solved. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 point 2 months ago* (1 child) It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. If a place is overpriced, I don't buy there. If there is an option to pay more voluntarily to express satisfaction, I regularly do so with an amount of tip that seems appropriate to me in that moment. However, it is not my job to pay the workers or to champion their rights while I am on vacation; that is nonsense. Either their salary is included in the price of the product or not, that's definitely NOT my business to care for that because I don't run their business. I'm a customer and guest and I pay for all the service. But the price has to be quoted in advance, I don't accept hidden costs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. Good then that means you won't go at all. That's even better. However, it is not my job to pay the workers If you go to a restaurant that relies on tips, yes it is. You chose to go there, and that is how 8t works there. Just go to a place without tips that pays fair, problem solved. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 months ago It is NOT solidarity with the workers if I allow myself to be exploited by the employer in addition to them. Good then that means you won't go at all. That's even better. However, it is not my job to pay the workers If you go to a restaurant that relies on tips, yes it is. You chose to go there, and that is how 8t works there. Just go to a place without tips that pays fair, problem solved. permalink fedilink source parent