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Maybe it's your humour but it's a little iffy to be throwing it out for everyone to see by default right? Like ironic transphobia is still gonna look like transphobia to transphobes and still trigger people trying to avoid transphobia.

Should it be spoilered? or nsfw? or something.

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[-] naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Normalising then, it's a behaviour many people engage in but expert recommendation is that it's maladaptive and it's not good to direct people to it or make it seem normal.

Regardless, just remember stuff federates to like blahja and shit. Maybe you think those places are bad places for weak people or something but they're still people. The 4Chaneque self hating and irony soaked humour is going to upset people that aren't expecting to come across it and tools like scaled sorting make this more visible.

I mean imagine if on dbzero a bunch of people starting calling everyone fag and telling people to kill themselves, it would very reasonably be shocking and unpleasant to have that dropped in front of you. It's well outside the norms of socialisation

[-] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You have a very incorrect or unnuanced view about basically everything you mentioned that just tells me you didn't experience any of that properly or without struggle and show 0 understanding for it, but I think we agree for different reasons that a dedicated instance would be better for those types of communities, fortunately smth like that already exists and is also unfederated.
I have already closed these comms here and will pin the link in a last post

(Though the upvote ratio is positive on all posts here so it is a place people like, but people will make it hard for it to co-exist with all the hugbox spaces due to, as you mentioned, scaled post sorting and Lemmy's size being so small that niche communities can't exist without being found by outsiders...)

[-] naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Sure, I am an uwu soft smol bean that has never been forced into a cage for being too crazy.

[-] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

That is valid, just let other people who have been (though not for being "too crazy") have their support groups...

[-] naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

I don't care what you do, I care that you do whatever you do in a prosocial manner.

If you want to inject heroin I am 100% behind you that as a divine being it is absolutely your decision alone to do that. I do insist that you ought not to do it in public view.

Does that clarify?

[-] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

It was intended as a niche in the first place but I don't have the capacity to protect these and fill these comms with content properly so the end result is probably smth we "agree" on.

Though your argument does give "I'm OK with those faggots as long as they don't shove it in my face" (aka. exist in public). Not saying that this is your opinion or even close to it, but it does have a similar vibe to me

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