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[-] MJKee9@lemmy.world 62 points 1 week ago

Which is OK. But communicate that with your partner.

[-] prenatal_confusion@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago

Ideally, yes. Real societal norms demand some specific behavior from women that make that difficult. I am not a native speaker so I am having trouble to find the right words. Maybe this is enough :)

[-] MJKee9@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

I can understand societal norms in certain places silencing women from fully disclosing sexual preferences and limitations. But, in my opinion, if you care about a woman having or faking an orgasm, you should also care about making sure you are both comfortable expressing your preferences and limitations before fucking.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

not every partner wants to communicate.

sometimes communication with your partner... results in violence from your partner.

people generally, don't like enjoy being the victims of violence.

[-] x00z@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

If you have to choose between bad sex and violence, you're getting raped.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

oh, is that true even if I'm a man?

[-] x00z@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago
[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago

right, but if i was a woman it would totally be true.

almost as if there are double standards when it comes to sex and rape.

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