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AITA for not having kids for my parents? 29F (lemmit.online)

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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/No_Twist8059 on 2023-09-04 16:30:28.

Hello,

I (29f) am approaching 30. I am married and my husband and I are extremely happy living the DINKWAD (dual income no kids with a dog) life. We are stacking money, traveling and enjoying each other and our marriage. However my parents ALWAYS mentioned that I am apparching 30 and need to have kids by now. I should've had 2 kids according to them by now. Everyone we meet, this comes up. And every time I say that my husband and I are not ready, which we feel we aren't. And every time my mom puts on a show about how selfish we are and how lonely they are and grandkids will help repopulate society and they'll be so happy because her children rarely visit her...

AITA?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

No - you get to choose between zero children and as many children as you can handle.