I don't think this is so much autism as just caring about details.
Communication is like that, someone has some idea or concept, they use words / symbols, then the other person translates that back to some concept.
Being aware of the whole chain, to me, is a requirement for making good questions.
A classic is: "how likely are you to recommend our products to friends & family". Which I'm sure is trying to gague the level of pride and anthusiams for the products. But then, why not ask that question instead? The element of "I don't go recommending anything to friends and family... that'd weird", probably makes the responses less useful.