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[Solved] What do I need to setup for an email-proxy?
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Best option is probably to look for providers that support custom domains, so you can point your domain directly to their mail servers. This usually require a paid subscription. Upside is that you retain control over your domain without having to host any email server.
The problem is that by putting a mail relay in between, while technically possible will break the SPF and DKIM chain for all emails that you forward. I don't think there is a good way around this since they check against the senders domain (and assuming that you can't get the email provider to trust your relay server)