Weekly Improvement Thread - YEAR OF THE FIRE HORSE
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Hello comrades and welcome to the third improvement megathread of February! 
February 17th will be the first day of the Year of the Fire Horse, which occurs every 60 years in the Chinese calendar and is known as a period of rapid change. This is a year that rewards fearless courage, dedication and punishes indecision, hesitation or impassiveness.
Some discussion ideas:
+ How was your week?
+ Do you have some plans for next week?
Poster caption
Patrol along the Southern border
南疆巡逻
Nanjiang xunluo
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this post was submitted on 15 Feb 2026
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Good news, I have an interview coming up on Tuesday for a full-time non-seasonal gig. Like I’m legit studying for this shit because this can be my ticket to start my adult life in earnest. The bugbear is it will be in a high cost of living and not really pay that much, but it will be well above minimum wage at least. But the job itself is definitely a stepping stone I don’t want to actually spend too much time in. If I’m going to have my career existential crisis, I’ll do it while paying my own way.
Working out aside, I’ve been working with a therapist and I need to find an avenue for me to get out of my own head. Worst case scenario I’m working a summer job away from home, but I need to do something offline for my sanity. Preferably something social so I can remind myself even in Ohio, not EVERYONE is horrible. To
’s credit, r/socialskills is a good resource.