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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by Dort_Owl@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

People spend their whole lives trying to prove to the machine that they aren't a burden, so that they aren't next on the chopping block. If they have a problem with that, well "it's up to you to deal with that."

So everyone has to perform. Constantly. We all need to prove we are an irreplaceable asset or we'll end up on the street. "I am my best self. I am useful. I have marketable skills. I am calm and collected. Because I can't trust anyone to support me but me." That's hustle culture in a nutshell, isn't it? But can people (especially those who aren't sheltered by wealth) really live like that all the time? Especially in the face of a world full of problems that a positive attitude alone can't solve? With the constant pressure to wear the skinsuit of a perfect asset even if the world is burning around them? Isn't it obvious that it would make everyone so tired?

To top it off, when the inevitable happens, and people crumble under the weight of the mask and and all their fear and anxiety explodes out of them, often the world will give them the exact response they feared. Confusion at the sudden collapse followed by "Well I guess they weren't strong enough to handle it. Not my problem." or at best a "Let's get that mask back on."

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[-] Ildsaye@hexbear.net 37 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I remember, as the Biden admin had more or less erased covid from consciousness, critics mentioning the cognitive load involved in having the vast majority of people no longer be able to acknowledge the million dead, the measures we had taken for each other, the seriousness of it. They attributed this cognitive load to people in the public becoming shittier drivers, and more impatient and short-fused in general.

It's a double-whammy. The load of one's own denial, and the load of having to live within everyone else's denial.

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