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not conservative. can't get a date either.
won't blame minorities for being a loser
So long as you depend on other people for happiness. you will never be happy. No one will just give you happiness, or can give you happiness.
Maybe you just won't ever meet the woman that would love someone just like you, maybe you are not searching the right places, or maybe you are just a woman repellant for one reason or another.
Focus on being authentic instead, not everyone needs to have someone.
I'm not who you were replying to, but I agree and disagree with your comment.
I'm not saying someone can't be happy single. But society makes it hard to be when the world revolves around relationships, being a virgin is used as an insult, etc.
But I do agree with you that not everyone needs to have a partner. I don't see myself ever getting into a relationship, and to some extent I'm often close to making peace with that, until I see a post, a comment, a video, etc, that makes me feel inferior due to it.
I do appreciate, though, the fact that you admit not everyone needs to have a relationship and that not everyone will have one. I'll take this approach every day of the week over the "Naaah, I'm sure you will be in a relationship soon cause everyone does!", followed by moving the goalpost (it's always "soon" regardless of how many years have passed).
I mean, you can always have a shitty relationship with whoever, one that's not really love at all.
That defeats the point, doesn't it?
Oh, for sure. I wouldn't want that. To be fair, I just want to not be looked at weird for never having been in a relationship more than I want a relationship at this point.
That's not to say that I would want a horrible relationship just so I can say "I was in a relationship". But oddly enough some people would view me better if that happened, because it means I was able to attract someone.