▲ 152 ▼ What skills did almost everybody have 50 years ago, but few people have today? (slrpnk.net) submitted 7 months ago by SolarBoy@slrpnk.net to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world 239 comments fedilink hide all child comments I suppose it would be mostly practical skills, cooking, fixing things. Usually had to be done by people themselves. Maybe also mental things like navigating (with or without paper map) and remembering their daily and weekly agendas. What other things would be a big difference with the people today?
[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 11 points 7 months ago (4 children) Using a rotary phone. looking up a book in a card catalog. The ability to solve your own problems. permalink fedilink source hideshow 8 child comments replies: [+] Jack_Burton@lemmy.ca 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (1 child) They don't/cant learn that in today's world. They have abandoned learning and switched it out with answers to everything. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) @grok can u explane wat bro sed in inglish plees permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Look a perfect example. permalink fedilink source parent [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago (1 child) Was with you untill the solve your own probles thing. I know of way many people who did not solve their own problems 50 yrs ago, passing their problems to their children instead. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago* (1 child) When I was very young around 50 years ago I built a small flashlight using a plastic tick tack box, paper clips,a flashlight bulb and two AAA batteries. No one showed me how I just figured it out. So just because you couldn't see the problem solvers among you doesn't mean they were not there. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) Yep, and that is still true. I was thinking more of the what to make of your life, family and mental health problems solving though. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) I don't know if you are asking a question about my life choices but I see a therapist regularly. My children answer the phone when I call and when something breaks people come to me for a fix. I'm fine, better than most. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 6 months ago Oh, I meant it in general, wasn't talking about you specifically, I can see how my use of "you" could lead to confusion though. Anyway, it's nice to hear you're doing well :) permalink fedilink source parent [–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net [S] 4 points 7 months ago (1 child) I wish I was better at solving my own problems. But also depends on what you consider solving your own problems is, exactly. I learned early not to rely on other people, so I tended to look up everything I need in books and online. But some problems are not solved with research, or suggestions from others online. Some problems are only solved by giving yourself time to process them yourself. This is something I'm still lacking in, perhaps because I always searched outside of myself for solutions. I'm amazed by the solutions some people can come up with without having access to information from books/online. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago It sounds like you are better at it than most kids these days. I look up solutions all the time. No sense reinventing the wheel. I've also spent days on some problem without looking elsewhere for a solution. The dopamine from solving a problem myself is excellent. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 point 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) People got more practice solving their own problems, anyway. Education to use for that was unambiguously lower, though, and there was plenty of people just not solving problems. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Jack_Burton@lemmy.ca 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (1 child) They don't/cant learn that in today's world. They have abandoned learning and switched it out with answers to everything. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) @grok can u explane wat bro sed in inglish plees permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Look a perfect example. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (1 child) They don't/cant learn that in today's world. They have abandoned learning and switched it out with answers to everything. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) @grok can u explane wat bro sed in inglish plees permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Look a perfect example. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) @grok can u explane wat bro sed in inglish plees permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Look a perfect example. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Look a perfect example. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago (1 child) Was with you untill the solve your own probles thing. I know of way many people who did not solve their own problems 50 yrs ago, passing their problems to their children instead. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago* (1 child) When I was very young around 50 years ago I built a small flashlight using a plastic tick tack box, paper clips,a flashlight bulb and two AAA batteries. No one showed me how I just figured it out. So just because you couldn't see the problem solvers among you doesn't mean they were not there. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) Yep, and that is still true. I was thinking more of the what to make of your life, family and mental health problems solving though. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) I don't know if you are asking a question about my life choices but I see a therapist regularly. My children answer the phone when I call and when something breaks people come to me for a fix. I'm fine, better than most. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 6 months ago Oh, I meant it in general, wasn't talking about you specifically, I can see how my use of "you" could lead to confusion though. Anyway, it's nice to hear you're doing well :) permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago* (1 child) When I was very young around 50 years ago I built a small flashlight using a plastic tick tack box, paper clips,a flashlight bulb and two AAA batteries. No one showed me how I just figured it out. So just because you couldn't see the problem solvers among you doesn't mean they were not there. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) Yep, and that is still true. I was thinking more of the what to make of your life, family and mental health problems solving though. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) I don't know if you are asking a question about my life choices but I see a therapist regularly. My children answer the phone when I call and when something breaks people come to me for a fix. I'm fine, better than most. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 6 months ago Oh, I meant it in general, wasn't talking about you specifically, I can see how my use of "you" could lead to confusion though. Anyway, it's nice to hear you're doing well :) permalink fedilink source parent
[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) Yep, and that is still true. I was thinking more of the what to make of your life, family and mental health problems solving though. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) I don't know if you are asking a question about my life choices but I see a therapist regularly. My children answer the phone when I call and when something breaks people come to me for a fix. I'm fine, better than most. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 6 months ago Oh, I meant it in general, wasn't talking about you specifically, I can see how my use of "you" could lead to confusion though. Anyway, it's nice to hear you're doing well :) permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago (1 child) I don't know if you are asking a question about my life choices but I see a therapist regularly. My children answer the phone when I call and when something breaks people come to me for a fix. I'm fine, better than most. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 6 months ago Oh, I meant it in general, wasn't talking about you specifically, I can see how my use of "you" could lead to confusion though. Anyway, it's nice to hear you're doing well :) permalink fedilink source parent
[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 point 6 months ago Oh, I meant it in general, wasn't talking about you specifically, I can see how my use of "you" could lead to confusion though. Anyway, it's nice to hear you're doing well :) permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net [S] 4 points 7 months ago (1 child) I wish I was better at solving my own problems. But also depends on what you consider solving your own problems is, exactly. I learned early not to rely on other people, so I tended to look up everything I need in books and online. But some problems are not solved with research, or suggestions from others online. Some problems are only solved by giving yourself time to process them yourself. This is something I'm still lacking in, perhaps because I always searched outside of myself for solutions. I'm amazed by the solutions some people can come up with without having access to information from books/online. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago It sounds like you are better at it than most kids these days. I look up solutions all the time. No sense reinventing the wheel. I've also spent days on some problem without looking elsewhere for a solution. The dopamine from solving a problem myself is excellent. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago It sounds like you are better at it than most kids these days. I look up solutions all the time. No sense reinventing the wheel. I've also spent days on some problem without looking elsewhere for a solution. The dopamine from solving a problem myself is excellent. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 point 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) People got more practice solving their own problems, anyway. Education to use for that was unambiguously lower, though, and there was plenty of people just not solving problems. permalink fedilink source parent