▲ 152 ▼ What skills did almost everybody have 50 years ago, but few people have today? (slrpnk.net) submitted 7 months ago by SolarBoy@slrpnk.net to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world 239 comments fedilink hide all child comments I suppose it would be mostly practical skills, cooking, fixing things. Usually had to be done by people themselves. Maybe also mental things like navigating (with or without paper map) and remembering their daily and weekly agendas. What other things would be a big difference with the people today?
[–] tensorpudding@lemmy.world 84 points 7 months ago (6 children) Memorizing phone numbers permalink fedilink source hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net [S] 15 points 7 months ago I feel like it's still important to remember the numbers of some important contacts, so you can actually call them using somebody elses phone if yours dies or breaks. But I suppose not many people would bother permalink fedilink source parent [–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 10 points 7 months ago (2 children) Lol, not only do I memorize phone numbers of family members, I did my parents taxes so often, I can memorize the social security numbers of all my household members and all their birthdates. Also I still remember addresses I used to live in. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago (1 child) Mmmm, interesting, can you list off that data along with your mother's maiden name? It's uh for a friend... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 months ago* (1 child) Sure it's [data expunged] and [data expunged] and [Error: Security Clearence not found] Lol, sorry, you seem to lack the credentials. It's "need-to-know basis" only. :P Seriously tho, my family is so like... idk I guess "emmeshed"? Like everything is so entangled. Like my mom literally use my brother's legal identity to take out loans... and also some assets are put under his name Also like mom used to not even have a screen lock on the phone until someone robbed her so now there'a a screen lock. And like I have access to their phones... and sometimes messed with settings and mom got mad at me. I don't even have any legal papers in my physical posession except like my state ID, cuz my mom wanted to "keep it safe" for me... To be fair: I held on to my first US passport as a teen, and I kinda damaged it lol (got it just to make sure my Citizenship status is properly documented in the legal system), never even had a chance to actually use it since parents were so busy all the time. If there is ever a family issue... oh shit we all know each other's info, we could theoretically do so much damage to each other like a family "civil war". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Elaine@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago* [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] DistrictSIX@lemmy.zip 2 points 7 months ago Same here. I even still remember my phone number from 40 years ago, living as a child in Tehran, Iran. Numbers just stick in my brain. permalink fedilink source parent [–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 7 months ago (1 child) We didn't memorise numbers! We just remembered them after having to manually dial them a hundred times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jet@hackertalks.com 6 points 7 months ago That's memorization in action permalink fedilink source parent [–] lukaro@lemmy.zip 5 points 7 months ago That skill morphed into remembering user names and passwords. permalink fedilink source parent [–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago Eh even before the Internet people had other tools to help with this. Physical books with people's addresses and phone numbers. Specialized holders for various business cards. Yellow pages and white pages. I suppose a lot of incidental memorization is lost but I don't think it's really a skill lost so much as the tool changed. And those tools pre-date the invention of the telephone, so it's not like people spent hundreds of years memorizing phone numbers before writing was invented. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Harvey656@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago Why wife's phone number is 'babe' and ill die on that hill. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net [S] 15 points 7 months ago I feel like it's still important to remember the numbers of some important contacts, so you can actually call them using somebody elses phone if yours dies or breaks. But I suppose not many people would bother permalink fedilink source parent
[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 10 points 7 months ago (2 children) Lol, not only do I memorize phone numbers of family members, I did my parents taxes so often, I can memorize the social security numbers of all my household members and all their birthdates. Also I still remember addresses I used to live in. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago (1 child) Mmmm, interesting, can you list off that data along with your mother's maiden name? It's uh for a friend... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 months ago* (1 child) Sure it's [data expunged] and [data expunged] and [Error: Security Clearence not found] Lol, sorry, you seem to lack the credentials. It's "need-to-know basis" only. :P Seriously tho, my family is so like... idk I guess "emmeshed"? Like everything is so entangled. Like my mom literally use my brother's legal identity to take out loans... and also some assets are put under his name Also like mom used to not even have a screen lock on the phone until someone robbed her so now there'a a screen lock. And like I have access to their phones... and sometimes messed with settings and mom got mad at me. I don't even have any legal papers in my physical posession except like my state ID, cuz my mom wanted to "keep it safe" for me... To be fair: I held on to my first US passport as a teen, and I kinda damaged it lol (got it just to make sure my Citizenship status is properly documented in the legal system), never even had a chance to actually use it since parents were so busy all the time. If there is ever a family issue... oh shit we all know each other's info, we could theoretically do so much damage to each other like a family "civil war". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Elaine@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago* [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] DistrictSIX@lemmy.zip 2 points 7 months ago Same here. I even still remember my phone number from 40 years ago, living as a child in Tehran, Iran. Numbers just stick in my brain. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago (1 child) Mmmm, interesting, can you list off that data along with your mother's maiden name? It's uh for a friend... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 months ago* (1 child) Sure it's [data expunged] and [data expunged] and [Error: Security Clearence not found] Lol, sorry, you seem to lack the credentials. It's "need-to-know basis" only. :P Seriously tho, my family is so like... idk I guess "emmeshed"? Like everything is so entangled. Like my mom literally use my brother's legal identity to take out loans... and also some assets are put under his name Also like mom used to not even have a screen lock on the phone until someone robbed her so now there'a a screen lock. And like I have access to their phones... and sometimes messed with settings and mom got mad at me. I don't even have any legal papers in my physical posession except like my state ID, cuz my mom wanted to "keep it safe" for me... To be fair: I held on to my first US passport as a teen, and I kinda damaged it lol (got it just to make sure my Citizenship status is properly documented in the legal system), never even had a chance to actually use it since parents were so busy all the time. If there is ever a family issue... oh shit we all know each other's info, we could theoretically do so much damage to each other like a family "civil war". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Elaine@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago* [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 months ago* (1 child) Sure it's [data expunged] and [data expunged] and [Error: Security Clearence not found] Lol, sorry, you seem to lack the credentials. It's "need-to-know basis" only. :P Seriously tho, my family is so like... idk I guess "emmeshed"? Like everything is so entangled. Like my mom literally use my brother's legal identity to take out loans... and also some assets are put under his name Also like mom used to not even have a screen lock on the phone until someone robbed her so now there'a a screen lock. And like I have access to their phones... and sometimes messed with settings and mom got mad at me. I don't even have any legal papers in my physical posession except like my state ID, cuz my mom wanted to "keep it safe" for me... To be fair: I held on to my first US passport as a teen, and I kinda damaged it lol (got it just to make sure my Citizenship status is properly documented in the legal system), never even had a chance to actually use it since parents were so busy all the time. If there is ever a family issue... oh shit we all know each other's info, we could theoretically do so much damage to each other like a family "civil war". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Elaine@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago* [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] DistrictSIX@lemmy.zip 2 points 7 months ago Same here. I even still remember my phone number from 40 years ago, living as a child in Tehran, Iran. Numbers just stick in my brain. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 7 months ago (1 child) We didn't memorise numbers! We just remembered them after having to manually dial them a hundred times. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jet@hackertalks.com 6 points 7 months ago That's memorization in action permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jet@hackertalks.com 6 points 7 months ago That's memorization in action permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lukaro@lemmy.zip 5 points 7 months ago That skill morphed into remembering user names and passwords. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago Eh even before the Internet people had other tools to help with this. Physical books with people's addresses and phone numbers. Specialized holders for various business cards. Yellow pages and white pages. I suppose a lot of incidental memorization is lost but I don't think it's really a skill lost so much as the tool changed. And those tools pre-date the invention of the telephone, so it's not like people spent hundreds of years memorizing phone numbers before writing was invented. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Harvey656@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago Why wife's phone number is 'babe' and ill die on that hill. permalink fedilink source parent