Heya! There's a lot I could say, but since we're off to a new start I just wanted to chime in and say let's try to build something better! Perhaps a bit more post-irony poised?
I think the internet (and many of the world) is lacking in genuine self expression, many people I've known irl just outright don't use it anymore, because it became in their words "too toxic". It's expected that these behaviors would somewhat carry over to new places we try to create.
I hope this place ends up leaving a more positive influence on the world and you enjoy your time here.