That’s an interesting point you make and I partly agree. There are certain undertones and sometimes you can create a better story by engaging these undertones and creating a monster in noble clothing and a metaphor for the societal corset women are forced ro wear.

Well, I'm glad we're approaching some common ground.

No one here is making the argument that you're seriously "encouraging mindless slaughter of people based on some regular dungeon crawling". No one's saying you're, like, recommending people go out and do that in real life. The argument is there is a message, even if it's unintentional.

But other times I just want to enjoy a trash movie or 15$ airport library book.

There's little wrong with enjoying a trash movie, but

And the undertones there are purely accidental and shouldn’t be taken too seriously.

Why? What authority says subtext shouldn't be taken seriously?

There's a lot of rich material for analysis, for talking about what our society values among other things, by looking at the messages in pop culture. Imagine two societies. In one, all their pop culture and trashy airport novels are about murder and plunder. In the other, they're about cooperation and building a better world together. Do you think that would mean anything? Do you think you could infer anything at all from that? It says something that we're cool with "then I killed him and took his stuff! Rock on!". We've all played that kind of game, but if you think about it that's a horrible story.

Surely there are stories that would be on the far side of the line for you. "I killed the men and enslaved the women! Look at all these points the game gave me!" would probably make most people uncomfortable. Why is the line there, but murder is fine? Does the placement of that line mean anything?

And again, this doesn't mean you can't play a beer-and-pretzels half-brained game about tactics, strategy, and extermination. But to wave your hands in the air and say it doesn't mean anything is absurd.