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A New York subway rider has accused a woman of breaking his Meta smart glasses. She was later hailed as a hero.

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[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev 3 points 2 months ago

If you're in a public space, people may be filming you.

It's a PUBLIC space, not yours. Your lack of self-control will rightly get you fucked up if you assault the wrong person, and there'll be a good chance of everyone watching a satisfying video of you getting punched while trying to take someone's phone.

TLDR: Control yourself, tough guy.

[-] Allero@lemmy.today 6 points 2 months ago

Here's different optics to consider: we know for many camera-enabled devices to deliver recordings to the cloud, where the data is used by authorities, often times in a very improper way.

In US, it is coordinating ICE raids; in other countries, it's other kinds of shady and inhumane acts.

Fighting this on the level of legislation is great...when it works. Overturning the power of a dictator authority or simply struggling against decisions that are made up above often takes illegal, brutal acts, or at least ones of misdemeanor.

It sure never hurts to ask someone to stop first, but then I can see an angle when refusal is going to escalate things badly for reasons that could be understood.

[-] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 3 points 2 months ago

I think the assumption people are making here with my original comment is that I wouldn’t first tell them to stop and delete whatever they had recorded. Which is my fault because I can see that from the way I said it. But if that doesn’t work? Well, they don’t just get to keep doing it.

[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev -2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I can see an angle when refusal is going to escalate things badly for reasons that could be understood.

Whatever "angle" you see is your mind trying to justify forcefully grabbing someone's property to destroy it.

I don't like surveillance either.

But you can't go around forcefully breaking other people's stuff unless it threatens your well being at that moment.

[-] Allero@lemmy.today 8 points 2 months ago

The thing is, it may actually threaten someone's wellbeing.

Surveillance, especially under a police state, can be a very clear and sometimes immediate threat.

[-] village604@adultswim.fan 1 points 2 months ago

You can't legally commit violence based on a hypothetical scenario.

[-] Allero@lemmy.today 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

You can't legally overthrow an oppressive regime, either. Legality is not the same as morality.

[-] village604@adultswim.fan 1 points 2 months ago

Ok, but you can't morally attack someone for a hypothetical scenario either.

[-] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 1 points 2 months ago

Exactly. The amount of people here saying “let the cops do it” or saying something about how whatever response is “illegal” is irritating.

[-] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 2 months ago

unless it threatens your well being at that moment

Which in this case it's doing. Next.

[-] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago

So, creepy men are now allowed to stare and record videos of women because technology allows it?

[-] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 2 points 2 months ago

Something being in a public space does not give everyone there free reign to do things that are rude. And given the upvotes/downvotes it seems like most people tend to agree with me here.

[-] bitcrafter@programming.dev 6 points 2 months ago

I was not going to downvote your comment despite disagreeing with it, but since you are now citing your downvote/upvote ratio as proof that most people support your position, you now get downvotes from me.

[-] Cruxifux@feddit.nl -5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Im totally fine with that friend.

[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev 4 points 2 months ago

Fuck internet points.

When in public, you can be recorded. Your permission isn't required. Public spaces belong to all. People have the right to film, take photos, and record audio. If you don't want that, campaign for legislation to change it. "Rudeness" isn't a legal term. If you can't tolerate being recorded in a public space, even "rudely", leave. Go somewhere else. If you assault someone recording you in public, you will potentially get the shit kicked out of you by that person, bystanders, and/or cops.

The state, in a legalistic framework, has a near-monopoly on justified escalation to physical violence. The person recording you has to be assaulting you first or disturbing the peace to a degree that it endangers you or other people's safety in order for your violence to be justified as defense.

You can't start a fight legally, but you can finish one. "Rudeness" isn't a good enough reason to start swinging.

So again, control yourself.

[-] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 2 points 2 months ago

I didn’t suggest assaulting anyone, you’re trying to paint this in a more violent light than it is.

[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev 2 points 2 months ago

Forcefully grabbing someone's property to break it is assault.

[-] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 months ago

Then why is Donald Trump not in jail?

[-] village604@adultswim.fan 3 points 2 months ago

Because his handler has blackmail material on the people who would be able to do something about it.

[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev 1 points 2 months ago

The Corporatist Oligarchy wants him in the presidency (for now).

[-] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 months ago

So, we are now supposed to just let creeps video record women because they paid for fancy glasses? Anyone notice this was a young, attractive woman?

[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev 1 points 2 months ago

TLDR: The law and it's philosophical/moral foundation and practical application doesn't run on what you think, and society is better for it.

Once again, the law says you aren't protected from being recorded in a public space, attractive or not. There's a plethora of ways to legally record people overtly and covertly in public. The law also says you can't grab other people's stuff and destroy it to prevent being recorded.

If the guy was assaulting her or disturbing the peace, she'd be justified in using violence to defend herself. She also had the option to talk to a cop and accuse this guy of harassment, which he was doing and others may have recorded evidence of that. But one is not morally or legally justified in starting fights, only finishing them as self-defense. The amount of force legally acceptable falls under the umbrella of the concept of "reasonable application of force" within what's commonly known as a "force escalation continuum".

So, no "creeps" shouldn't be allowed to record women as that would constitute harassment, but it's better to go through proper legal channels than pretend to be a tough-guy/girl and start an altercation that may have permanent consequences.

[-] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 0 points 2 months ago

This is what a lawyer who specializes in getting off drunk drivers and playground perverts would argue.

This is shitty behavior.

[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev 4 points 2 months ago

I don't know what's so hard to understand about "you're not allowed to put your hands on someone unless they put their hands on you first", but go off, I guess.

[-] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 1 points 2 months ago

Not to mention, what you’re suggesting here, is that this lady should have had her ass kicked by cops and bystanders and that would have been an acceptable outcome. I strongly disagree with that.

[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev -1 points 2 months ago

Her "ass-kicking" would only be acceptable to the point where she could be detained and arrested.

The guy with smart glasses could also be arrested and charged with disturbing the peace depending on what his exact actions were and if there's recordings of him.

[-] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 2 months ago

Her “ass-kicking” would only be acceptable to the point where she could be detained and arrested

...And you think cops in this century of 21 would stop there... why?

[-] village604@adultswim.fan 2 points 2 months ago

Because it's a white woman

[-] RustyShackleford@programming.dev 1 points 2 months ago

Are we talking about the hypothetical being posed or a different one?

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