โฒ 245 โผ I'm new to lemmy, came from reddit. What's the lemmy etiquette like? How different is it from reddiqutte? (lemmy.ml) submitted 9 months ago by Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml 556 comments fedilink hide all child comments I'm new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don't know anything about lemmy etiquette and don't want to do anything bad thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D
[โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 9 months ago (1 child) easier to offend Also because marginalized people are allowed here. Will be a great lesson in not being a dick! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -7 points 9 months ago (2 children) being marginalized and being offended by stupid shit have nothing to do with one another. plenty of marginalized people have senses of humor and are thick skinned. it's mostly the privileged over educated types who get offended by everything and on behave of everyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 9 months ago (2 children) More referring to the fact that being personally attacked is more likely to offend most people than bigotry against a third party. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [โ] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago (1 child) Not enough people say pointlessly cruel things about men or white people as classes. Can we aim upwards instead of to a shithole? too many people say pointlessly cruel things about non-men or non-white Thank you~! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 months ago Both are true! permalink fedilink source parent [โ] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -3 points 9 months ago (1 child) where i live, perceived bigotry against a third party is seen as way more offense than personal attacks. like people will go out of their way to twist your words to make them seem offensive because it gives them a reason to be upset. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml [S] 1 point 8 months ago So where you live, people like to make shit up to get mad about? What if you leave that where you live, and try to be a bit more understanding here? permalink fedilink source parent [โ] AntiOutsideAktion@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago "Why can't you be a good one and let me say the word around you??" permalink fedilink source parent
[+] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -7 points 9 months ago (2 children) being marginalized and being offended by stupid shit have nothing to do with one another. plenty of marginalized people have senses of humor and are thick skinned. it's mostly the privileged over educated types who get offended by everything and on behave of everyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 9 months ago (2 children) More referring to the fact that being personally attacked is more likely to offend most people than bigotry against a third party. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [โ] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago (1 child) Not enough people say pointlessly cruel things about men or white people as classes. Can we aim upwards instead of to a shithole? too many people say pointlessly cruel things about non-men or non-white Thank you~! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 months ago Both are true! permalink fedilink source parent [โ] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -3 points 9 months ago (1 child) where i live, perceived bigotry against a third party is seen as way more offense than personal attacks. like people will go out of their way to twist your words to make them seem offensive because it gives them a reason to be upset. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml [S] 1 point 8 months ago So where you live, people like to make shit up to get mad about? What if you leave that where you live, and try to be a bit more understanding here? permalink fedilink source parent [โ] AntiOutsideAktion@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago "Why can't you be a good one and let me say the word around you??" permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 9 months ago (2 children) More referring to the fact that being personally attacked is more likely to offend most people than bigotry against a third party. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [โ] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago (1 child) Not enough people say pointlessly cruel things about men or white people as classes. Can we aim upwards instead of to a shithole? too many people say pointlessly cruel things about non-men or non-white Thank you~! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 months ago Both are true! permalink fedilink source parent [โ] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -3 points 9 months ago (1 child) where i live, perceived bigotry against a third party is seen as way more offense than personal attacks. like people will go out of their way to twist your words to make them seem offensive because it gives them a reason to be upset. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml [S] 1 point 8 months ago So where you live, people like to make shit up to get mad about? What if you leave that where you live, and try to be a bit more understanding here? permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago (1 child) Not enough people say pointlessly cruel things about men or white people as classes. Can we aim upwards instead of to a shithole? too many people say pointlessly cruel things about non-men or non-white Thank you~! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 months ago Both are true! permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 months ago Both are true! permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -3 points 9 months ago (1 child) where i live, perceived bigotry against a third party is seen as way more offense than personal attacks. like people will go out of their way to twist your words to make them seem offensive because it gives them a reason to be upset. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml [S] 1 point 8 months ago So where you live, people like to make shit up to get mad about? What if you leave that where you live, and try to be a bit more understanding here? permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml [S] 1 point 8 months ago So where you live, people like to make shit up to get mad about? What if you leave that where you live, and try to be a bit more understanding here? permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] AntiOutsideAktion@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago "Why can't you be a good one and let me say the word around you??" permalink fedilink source parent