Well yeah, if you turn down a woman, she's going to tell her friends about it.
And those friends probably won't be interested in starting a relationship with you any time soon.

Those secret whisper campaigns sound straight out of a teenage movie, and not at all how mature people behave. I'd say you dodged a bullet in that case.

Your anecdotal experience is not representative of everyone else's though, and neither is mine.

I don't appreciate you resorting to personal attacks to convey your beliefs, so this will be my last reply.