▲ 505 ▼ Anon asks out a friend (sh.itjust.works) submitted 11 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works 196 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Kushan@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago (3 children) Nothing at all, but that last line, "When is my turn to have fun?" Is a bit transactional, like there's an expectation and that's the problematic part. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [+] ook@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Glide@lemmy.ca 0 points 11 months ago* Anon grows and changes in a 5 year span, and his romantic interests change. Girls opinion on romance is different in 5 years. "I don't want to be the backup." Men can grow and change over 5 years. Women? Nah. She just wanted to fuck around and now she's settling. This train of thought is some terminally online shit. Then again, complaining that green text is some terminally online shit is insane in its own account. permalink fedilink source parent [–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 11 months ago (1 child) like there’s an expectation you can have expectations from relationships. you don't have to, and not every relationship has them, but it's perfectly fine to have them, as long as the other person's fine with that. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kushan@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago From yes. Of no. permalink fedilink source parent [–] QuoVadisHomines@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago And that was added by ilovethebomb permalink fedilink source parent
[+] ook@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Glide@lemmy.ca 0 points 11 months ago* Anon grows and changes in a 5 year span, and his romantic interests change. Girls opinion on romance is different in 5 years. "I don't want to be the backup." Men can grow and change over 5 years. Women? Nah. She just wanted to fuck around and now she's settling. This train of thought is some terminally online shit. Then again, complaining that green text is some terminally online shit is insane in its own account. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Glide@lemmy.ca 0 points 11 months ago* Anon grows and changes in a 5 year span, and his romantic interests change. Girls opinion on romance is different in 5 years. "I don't want to be the backup." Men can grow and change over 5 years. Women? Nah. She just wanted to fuck around and now she's settling. This train of thought is some terminally online shit. Then again, complaining that green text is some terminally online shit is insane in its own account. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 11 months ago (1 child) like there’s an expectation you can have expectations from relationships. you don't have to, and not every relationship has them, but it's perfectly fine to have them, as long as the other person's fine with that. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kushan@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago From yes. Of no. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] QuoVadisHomines@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago And that was added by ilovethebomb permalink fedilink source parent
