Speaking from how i intuitively feel about the science..

It looks like waves can exists on a spectrum from low energy to high energy and the more energy you add the more there is potential for complex reactions, the more new properties emerge and thus the more potential damage there can be done to given matter.

dB can be seen as the measurement of vibration that is usually used for the range of waves we call sound waves but i see no reason why it cant work outside the scope.

So technically feel the waves are really the same, but then compare that to the electromagnetic spectrum and we label some ranges as colors.

If red is the color that makes us angry. And green makes us calm. Then the question we are asking is: What shade of green do we need to make us angry?

Because were getting hung up on the fact there both measurements of photonic light, so essentially the same?

Is that a fair comparison? Can someone get a real scientist in the room please?

Yeah, it's called a phase change diagram