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Edit: decided a default "amogus" was funnier and made more sense
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Any specific ways you would prefer your body to be or others to see you assuming you could just magically have your body be a specific way or society was welcoming to seeing you that way (ie: a sexless body or people just accepting that you have no gender are both options)?
I am not sure/am still thinking about how i perceive my body and how i want other to perceive it.
Recently i tried to wear a skirt and realized that i look more masculine in it than i thought and to my suprise i didnt like that. So i guess i want to be percived without a specific gender or as something in between.
And if i could magically assemble a new body for me (work in progress):
Both is an option without magic. Salmacian and penile preserving vaginoplasty are terms associated with it. Not gonna be fully functional for both though - gotta resort to magic for that.
Hmmm, thank you for providing that information. (Tho surgery is scary and feels very final)
Agreed. But I think just knowing others feel the same, some of whom are willing to even do surgery to reach their goal, can be comforting and make one feel less alone.