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IKEA moves to Thread (and away from Zigbee)
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ZigBee/Thread are just better for this, you're protected without doing anything.
Requirements like the ones you listed above make widespread adoption impossible, short of forcing routers to have a separate IoT network and forcing devices to use only that, with all the issues that may prop up along the way.