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Self Improvement
A community which focusses on improving yourself. This can be in many different ways - from improving physical health or appearance, to improving mental health, creating better habits, overcoming addictions, etc.
While material circumstances beyond our control do govern much of our daily lives, people do have agency and choices to make, whether that is as "simple" as disciplining yourself to not doomscroll, to as complex as recreating yourself to have many different hobbies and habits.
This is not a place where all we do is talk about improving "productivity" (in a workplace context) and similar terms and harmful lifestyles like "grindset". Self-improvement here is intended to make you a generally better and happier person, as well as a better communist, and any other roles you may have in your life.
Rules and guidelines:
- Posts should be about self-improvement. This is obviously a wide category, and can range from advice, to finding resources, to self-posts about needing to improve in a certain area, or how you have improved, and many other things.
- Use content warnings when discussing difficult subjects.
- Do not make medical decisions solely because of a discussion you have had with any person here (e.g. whether to take or not take medications; diagnoses; etc.) as we do not vet people. All medical problems should be discussed with a real-life medical professional.
- Do not post harmful advice here. If this is seen, then please report it and we shall remove it. If you are unsure about whether it's precisely harmful advice or not but feel uneasy about it, please report it anyway.
- Do not insult other users and their lifestyles or their habits (unless they ask, I suppose). This is a place for self-improvement. Critique and discussion about a course of action is encouraged over shit-flinging. Don't talk down to people.
I started therapy with a new psych on Friday! I’m gonna struggle to keep it up for too long financially, but hopefully can get something from it in the meantime. He thinks I have undiagnosed ADHD which tbh would explain a lot. To get an official diagnosis means going through a different, even more expensive process. So I’m gonna have to try figure that shit out.
My other small self improvement decision was to take FinnishBolshevik’s advice about reading. I used to read a lot more but in the past year or so I got out of the habit somewhat. I’ve started using spare time like waiting for the bus or at the laundromat, sitting on public transport or whatever, to get 15 minutes in here and there instead of doomscrolling. I’m finding PDFs I can read on my phone when I can so I don’t even have to carry around a book or my ereader. I’m listening to audiobooks more instead of just random podcasts/youtube at work. It’s helping me read a lot more!
That's good advice, I'm also trying to read regularly. What are you reading these days?