And there are some dudes who only want sex and aren't willing to put any work into building an actual relationship outside the bedroom. My point being is that there are lots of different attitudes out there, but the vast majority of people are just normal people wanting healthy relationships.

I think social media has really segregated people from reality and has warped people's interpretation of others. It feels as if everyone believes they are the last "normal" person in society and everyone else is just intrinsically antagonistic.