That's a great answer. Thank you. To answer your question: I find that I can locate a lot of neat and informative stuff online but I'm being a little selfish here. I learn better when asking questions and having people answer in their own words. I know a lot but it helps cement things I've already read or heard. Also a lot of what I'm thinking about contains subjective matter. It helps with objective fact to read articles but even armed with a bunch of facts (some conflicting and some from bad sources) I feel my understanding really shines when I'm communicating with real people. I'm also using it as a temperature check for if I can ask these questions normally and how people take it. I don't mind downvotes or negative reactions online but I mind if I piss off a group of people I know. I really am just kind of an old dunce stumbling around a world I was never familiar with in the past. I'm way better at not deadnaming or misgendering but this kind of discourse really tells me a lot even if it's all negative.