Divorcees of Lemmy, why did your marriage end? (sopuli.xyz)

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I wonder what causes people who once thought they’d spend their life together to not want to do that anymore.

Has your partner changed? Or did they not change when you expected them to? Have you changed?

Have you not noticed each others’ flaws when love was young and the pink glasses still worked and only discovered them later?

And what can your experience teach us about our own relationships?

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I was 26! Also for context, that was only my 2nd longterm relationship. So I was lacking in individual growth and relationship experience, looking back.

this post was submitted on 09 Jun 2025

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