One of my parents was very fond of that proverb. <3 Literally as well as metaphorically.

I meant more I have a mindset in terms of society's scarcity.

The messaging drilled into me is always that the government can't afford to give us all the things we need. So when people say the government should give everyone, say, a UBI, part of me panics thinking at that rate the day when the government decides it can, say, finally afford to help people like me to get a wheelchair, or help the homeless people up the road get shelter, or cut hospital wait times to under 12 months, will never come because all the money will go to UBIs.

But that's a false dichotomy.

They’ve spent more money administering it than actually providing

I get the impression this happens a fair bit with change to social programmes that is designed to send project an ideology. Sometimes it almost feels like there are two NZs, one that wants to help everyone become a prosperous society and one that wants to not have social support at all.