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To me, money isn’t everything. It’d be nice if I got something that cost a lot, but I’d also be fine with something cheap as long as it’s high-quality and not like a Temu ring or something.

We got each other the same ring off Amazon for $12.😂 😅

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (4 children)

$100

Moissinite

Rings costing more is a scam

[–] relation_anon4238 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Agreed, as someone who’s buying my fiancé a $12 Amazon ring. We’re matching!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

The cost of the ring doesn't matter. Ultimately it's about what the ring represents; the bond and commitment you've made.

I was never a ring guy before, never really liked having things on my hands/fingers all the time.

Before we got married my wife got me an inexpensive, simple sterling silver comfort fit band from Kohls as a 'tester'.

If something happened to my current wedding band I wouldn't replace it with a new one, I'd switch to that old inexpensive silver one because a new one wouldn't be mine. It would be the one she slipped on my hand on our wedding day.

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