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ah, it's "the surgery", a vaginoplasty 🙈 If all goes well, I'll be kept in the hospital for a week, then will have to stay in a hotel near the hospital for another week before I can recover at home. Recovery is about three months away from work, full recovery is like a year or so.
Fucking hell that's massive. It's been a long road getting to where you are but the next step is HUGE. How are you feeling?
really nervous, I don't have as much hair removal as I would like so I don't feel prepared, but considering the political situation and how long it has taken to get here I don't feel comfortable delaying either ...
I agree, trans is the current scapegoat for everything and an easy target. Postponing is high risk and not worth it. At the same time you're not where you want to be with it. What can I do to support you?
aw, thank you for being so supportive 🥰 I think it will be enough to just be understanding when your mod suddenly ghosts in a few weeks 🤣 Though, knowing me, I might end up spending all my time here - we'll see. 😅
You have it in spades! Just see how it goes, the distraction may help but it may be too much