I mean she actually lost at Ferrix and with not finding Axis.
Hmmm... I guess so, but the "loss" of Axis didn't hurt her in any way. I think, technically, it was enough for the empire big wigs that she figured out there was an Axis and the theft of imperial hardware. She got a promotion, made everybody else look silly for trying to maintain their little silo'd intergalactic feifdoms, got taken on to a super top secret special project, and even got herself boy-toy.
My read is that she's been the "smartest bad guy in the room" for most of the series up to this point.
he dinner scene also shows, that she integrated syril neatly into her world
OOhhhhhh... Didn't clock the color themes. I got focused on Syril just changing hands between two domineering women. Syril's mom, whose vision was small (treating Syril like a punching bag) and Dedra whose vision was much grander (using Syril as an intelligence asset).