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What the hell does it mean to talk like a woman? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 20 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Some idiot told me that I don't talk like a woman, that I talk like a man. Not that my voice sounds masculine (it doesn't) but that I "use masculine words or phrases" what the fuck does that even mean?

If there's a better community to post this please let me know and I'll delete this and post it again there.

Edit: They aren't a man, they're a woman. She definitely gave off the JK Rowling TERF vibes though.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

I'm sorry to hear that happened to you. I think I "talk like a woman" and in certain areas make a conscious effort not to. Women tend to use more qualifiers and are less definite in their statements. I will be 100% right and still say "I think" or "maybe". It's the whole confident women are bossy women thing. It's not true at all, but there's still so much of that mentality.

They were probably just trying to say something offensive, but if it means anything it's likely just that you're confident and knowledgeable, because thanks to misogyny that's what we think men sound like and not what we think women sound like. Take it as a compliment if anything. It's possible you were just being effortlessly correct lol. And obviously that's what women sound like if you're a woman and that's what you sound like.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 20 hours ago

Ayup. Anybody who uses this "you talk like a man/woman" thing today is ignorant and likely using it to put you down.