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[–] 83 points 1 year ago (9 children)

I still think guy/dude is gender neutral. Call it the Good Burger principle:

“I’m a dude, he’s a dude, she’s a dude, we’re all dudes… HEY!”

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  • [–] [S] 45 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    doesn't matter if it isn't to whoever you are referring to

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  • [–] 44 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Yeah I agree. At the end of the day I’m not going to disrespect someone by calling them something they don’t want to be called

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Yeah for me, just she/her, thanks.

    If you wanna borrow from old gang verbage, you can call me girl, I suppose. Like "whaddup, girl" or babe is nice too. Like... Maybe call me something sexy and degrade me, don't nullify me by making me into a man. I would rather be a sex toy, a literal object, than be a man.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    My closest gender neutral family member likes dude, if you're in doubt just ask, they'll appreciate it

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    Dunno, I use "dudette" pretty frequently with my girl friends (and I don't mean Egg Carriers™, nor do I have something better than "girl friends" - initially wanted to go for "chick pals" as a snappy equivalent, then I started feeling like That One Creepy Uncle). Actually use "dudette" more than I do "dude," it has a nicer sound to it.

    As I see it, "dude" is gender neutral when used as an interjection, same as "man" and "guy."

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