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[–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

I mean, a date can be a pretty safe and tame event. It's how you might get to know someone.

You shouldn't expect anything romantic out of such a date, and certainly makes sense to meet at the venue and the venue be very open and visible. But to say you can't even offer a chance to get to know each other without getting to know each other is a bit over the top.

Better chances in interest themed events and activities to have a promising match of course, but there has to be some opportunity to get acquainted.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago

    There is a huge difference between "you're pretty and that's the only thing I know about you, want to go on a date?" And "Hey, we share a few similar interests and you are pleasant to talk to, and attractive, would you like to go on a date?"

    You should have a baseline beyond simply looking at them. A date is where you get to know them beyond that baseline. If it's a stranger, it isn't unreasonable to say you should have at least a few minutes of conversation before asking them out.

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