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What would you like to be when you grow up? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 day ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I don't care about the kids under 30. The funnier the better, and the older you are the more I want to know: what would you like to be when you grow up?
Achievable goals fall short of true potential.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I just want to stop feeling imposter syndrome. I'm nearing 50, at work everyone seems to think I am one of the most competent people they have met in my field. I get the hard problems, get dragged into lots of projects as a technical consultant. And yet internally, I forever feel like I'm "faking it until I make it". Like I'm one question away from being unmasked as a kid playing at knowing what I am doing. Consciously, I know I am not and that I'm actually pretty good at this. But, every time I get a meeting request from my boss, I still get a moment of panic thinking, "this is it, I'm about to be fired". That's what I want from "growing up", to just not feel that feeling constantly.

Also, I want to be independently wealthy when I grow up. Fuck this whole work thing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I would have that. If not for the fact that no one around me seems to have any clue what's going on (either). You don't have to be perfect, no one is. Everyone knows no one is. But compared to the people around you, who are also putting up facades, maybe you're actually doing a pretty good job?