Fellow Autist here:

We are being lumped in.

I can't tell you the number of times I have gotten into arguments to defend someone's ... non conformity to societally standard gender norms, societally standard sexual preferences, societally standard cisness (?), against some MAGA hat wearing dudebro...

Only for that very person, who was present with me, as I defended them verbally against some asshole, in person...

To then, some months or weeks later, literally scream at me when something completely unrelated to any of that upset them...

... and they throw every single rhetorical device and phrase at me that they throw at actual male chauvanists, and also simultaneously attempt to deride my insufficient amount of stereotypical macho manliness.

And this wasn't a single person doing this.

It has been multiple people, many times, all self described leftists or liberals who all just immediately revert to all the insults they'd hurl at an avowed white neonazi.

Oh well, I guess I am at least used to constantly being misunderstood and shunned from society because of an inherent way that I am different from most people that I have no ability to fundamentally change.

intense deadpan stare to emphasize the galactic levels of irony