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What's a lie you've told a man to avoid outright rejecting him? (lazysoci.al)
submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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It's something we need to do sometimes to stay safe. What are things you've said?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I guess it wasn’t technically a lie, but my manager at the restaurant I worked at would “jokingly” ask me on a date at least once a shift we worked together, if not multiple times. Finally, I said yes, also jokingly, and to pick me up the next day. After he obviously didn’t, every time he would ask again I told him I gave him a chance and he stood me up. He stopped asking a little bit after that

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago

That's a really clever way of doing it, jokingly waste his time so it goes away.