Being confident got you a long way.

Still does here in America. But as this thread proves, lots of people on Lemmy lack it.

I've never been handsome, and I've never had a problem dating. Even when i was in high school and was awkward as fuck.

I grew up on a small town, and everyone talked to everyone. So i never had an issue.

Lemmy seems to have more social outcasts than even Reddit.