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[–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

That only works if you would consider the kind of person who likes to spend time at bars as a potential mate though.

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  • Dating is all about going places you don't like to meet people so also don't want to be there, which makes literally any other option more appealing.

    My SO and I met at a dance. I didn't want to be there, and my SO thought it was tacky, so we had something immediately in common when I walked over to talk.

    It's a weird, unspoken cultural thing. If I go somewhere to have fun, I'm not interested in meeting new people, I'm interested in the activity.

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