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You had to choose between a small set of approved groups you could belong to. It was especially bad in my small village in western Germany: you could be either a fashion victim (all with the same hair, clothing style, one year they ALL dyed their hair red), a computer nerd, a sporty person, a hip-hop or a techno fan. If you didn't belong to any of the approved groups, you were an outsider and bullied.

Obviously I'm writing this because my best friend and I were among the outcast. We bought our stuff at thrift shops and didn't care much for fashion, neither what was 'in style' nor the geek/techno/hip-hop fashion. One year I cut my hair really short and got so much shit for it, because apparently you could only do that if you 100% subscribed to a matching Goth aesthetic. (Still have short hair, so take that stupid mean girls!)

It was probably partially a small-town-thing, but if you look at the media from the 90s you'll rarely see characters that don't neatly fit a certain type.