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Makes sense. I don't think I'm neurodivergent, or at least I haven't been tested nor have I had any significant reason to think I should. That said, I have neurodivergent friends, and I really appreciate them when they're blunt about things. I had a roommate who approached me at the start saying, "I've been diagnosed w/ Aspergers so I struggle with social cues. Is it okay if I ask for help interpreting social situations?" That was awesome, and I wish neuro-typical people would be similarly upfront, like, "e.g. I don't like how you did X last week, it made me feel Y." That gives me a chance to explain or apologize X, which hopefully addresses Y.
Say what you think, and hopefully you're proven wrong about some negative assumptions. It's uncomfortable and hard, I get it, but I think living w/ uncertainty is even more uncomfortable.
Yeah, I feel the same way. Like my friends thought I was extra confident and brave, but no I'm terrified just like everyone is. I just find the unknown and the uncertain way more terrifying and uncomfortable, so I'm always asking why why why till I figure out what's going on.