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Banned from [email protected] for using neopronouns (lemmy.nz)

submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Five days ago, drag was banned from [email protected] for using neopronouns. A comment explaining drag's pronouns, and a comment saying "drag" isn't a nickname, were removed with the reason "trolling". Drag understands why someone would think that using different pronouns than most people is trolling - transphobia. However, drag is confused how on earth not liking a nickname is a violation of any rules anywhere.

Context of the removed comments:

Drag would like to pre-empt any further accusations of trolling by asking a question: If drag were a right wing troll, and you chose to freely accept drag's pronouns, wouldn't that completely neuter the trolling attempt? Trolling is about trying to make others upset. You don't have to get upset when someone uses unusual pronouns. If you aren't transphobic, then it's impossible to troll you that way. And drag promises: drag wants you to not be transphobic. Drag is not trying to upset anyone. If you do what drag wants you to do, then you get what you want too. This is a non-issue, there's only a problem if you want there to be.

EDIT: DRAG DID NOT TELL ANYBODY TO USE DRAG'S PREFERRED PRONOUNS.

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[-] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago

YDI, you came to a community and weren't contributing to the discussion and immediately decided to pivot the discussion to yourself. In addition your persistent and off-topic discussion about neopronouns could be viewed as trolling by others. It's very similar to what another user DroneRights was doing a while back, though though their posts and comments were much more hostile and aggressive towards others. Yours are less aggressive but still give off the same vibes.

Maybe it was a bit extreme for them to permaban you for that but after dealing with DroneRights I can't say I blame them.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago

Drag didn't change the topic to dragself. Someone else decided to interrogate drag about drag's pronouns. Would you have preferred drag ignore them? Denigrate the question and tell them to go away, because drag doesn't want to discuss that topic? That's how drag felt, but drag chose to be polite, and now you're mad at drag for that.

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