▲ 196 ▼ The Anti-Social Century | Americans are now spending more time alone than ever. It’s changing our personalities, our politics, and even our relationship to reality (www.theatlantic.com) submitted 2 years ago by silence7@slrpnk.net to c/news@lemmy.world 55 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 4 points 2 years ago (2 children) Can someone please make an app for meeting people that doesn't ban me or require me to enter all my personal data? I feel like its so hard to meet people these days, since all the apps have turned into data harvest and selling machines :( permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Haven't done it using an app. Pick an activity. Find a club that does it. Meet in person permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) How do I find the club? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Pick an activity. I'm into the outdoors, so looked at local Sierra Club chapters and cycling clubs. Joined a couple. Met a lot of people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 points 2 years ago* (2 children) ?? How do you find a club???? Let's say I want DnD, I look at Facebook, into the library and then searched for a website and found nothing What should I do now? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ithral@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago Check your local game store if you have one, you can ask around there. You can also create an lfg post on reddit in the tabletop RPG subreddit for your area, or find the Lemmy equivalent permalink fedilink source parent [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I searched Facebook, found a group related to my activity, and all I found was bots posting ads trying to get me to buy things related to the activity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 1 point 2 years ago I didn't find either group on social media. Real groups have some other way to reach them. permalink fedilink source parent [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) I thought we were here, I thought this was the place? On a related note, I offer to any who wish it my time and attention via this anonymous discord server LINK. I would have used Matrix but it's still missing a couple features. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Is this a joke? I said sites that dont ban me or require unnecessary personal data. Discord is exactly one of those shitty services. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I've given Discord exactly 0% of my personal identifying information, and I've reposted pornography there with 0 bans. Also, it still works as a website in desktop mode. I respect your choice and I'm sorry you haven't found a place to belong, but the discord sentiment in particular sounds like maybe a skill issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Sign up for an account on Tor Browser. They don't ask for your info because they already have it. Try signing up where they don't, and they'll ban you unless you give them your identity permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Done, used a tempInBox email to verify a slightly more permanent ProtonMail free account and then created a Discord Account for you, all on Tor. Username: SmoothedSquare@proton.me Password: Ergherew54! Same credentials for discord and proton until somebody logs in and changes them. Also, I assure you my ISP coop doesn't sell my info to Discord, lol. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Its via your fingerprint. Last time I tried to signup was a few years ago. They demanded a phone number. You didn't get asked a phone number? Have you made a post yet? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) If you use the website version it doesn't have fingerprint capability in the first place. On mobile website switch to desktop mode, log in, and then switch back to mobile version once you're in and it works fine. Sent a test message and everything permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Haven't done it using an app. Pick an activity. Find a club that does it. Meet in person permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) How do I find the club? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Pick an activity. I'm into the outdoors, so looked at local Sierra Club chapters and cycling clubs. Joined a couple. Met a lot of people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 points 2 years ago* (2 children) ?? How do you find a club???? Let's say I want DnD, I look at Facebook, into the library and then searched for a website and found nothing What should I do now? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ithral@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago Check your local game store if you have one, you can ask around there. You can also create an lfg post on reddit in the tabletop RPG subreddit for your area, or find the Lemmy equivalent permalink fedilink source parent [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I searched Facebook, found a group related to my activity, and all I found was bots posting ads trying to get me to buy things related to the activity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 1 point 2 years ago I didn't find either group on social media. Real groups have some other way to reach them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) How do I find the club? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Pick an activity. I'm into the outdoors, so looked at local Sierra Club chapters and cycling clubs. Joined a couple. Met a lot of people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 points 2 years ago* (2 children) ?? How do you find a club???? Let's say I want DnD, I look at Facebook, into the library and then searched for a website and found nothing What should I do now? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ithral@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago Check your local game store if you have one, you can ask around there. You can also create an lfg post on reddit in the tabletop RPG subreddit for your area, or find the Lemmy equivalent permalink fedilink source parent [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I searched Facebook, found a group related to my activity, and all I found was bots posting ads trying to get me to buy things related to the activity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 1 point 2 years ago I didn't find either group on social media. Real groups have some other way to reach them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Pick an activity. I'm into the outdoors, so looked at local Sierra Club chapters and cycling clubs. Joined a couple. Met a lot of people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 points 2 years ago* (2 children) ?? How do you find a club???? Let's say I want DnD, I look at Facebook, into the library and then searched for a website and found nothing What should I do now? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ithral@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago Check your local game store if you have one, you can ask around there. You can also create an lfg post on reddit in the tabletop RPG subreddit for your area, or find the Lemmy equivalent permalink fedilink source parent [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I searched Facebook, found a group related to my activity, and all I found was bots posting ads trying to get me to buy things related to the activity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 1 point 2 years ago I didn't find either group on social media. Real groups have some other way to reach them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 points 2 years ago* (2 children) ?? How do you find a club???? Let's say I want DnD, I look at Facebook, into the library and then searched for a website and found nothing What should I do now? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ithral@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago Check your local game store if you have one, you can ask around there. You can also create an lfg post on reddit in the tabletop RPG subreddit for your area, or find the Lemmy equivalent permalink fedilink source parent [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I searched Facebook, found a group related to my activity, and all I found was bots posting ads trying to get me to buy things related to the activity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 1 point 2 years ago I didn't find either group on social media. Real groups have some other way to reach them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Ithral@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago Check your local game store if you have one, you can ask around there. You can also create an lfg post on reddit in the tabletop RPG subreddit for your area, or find the Lemmy equivalent permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I searched Facebook, found a group related to my activity, and all I found was bots posting ads trying to get me to buy things related to the activity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 1 point 2 years ago I didn't find either group on social media. Real groups have some other way to reach them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] silence7@slrpnk.net [S] 1 point 2 years ago I didn't find either group on social media. Real groups have some other way to reach them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) I thought we were here, I thought this was the place? On a related note, I offer to any who wish it my time and attention via this anonymous discord server LINK. I would have used Matrix but it's still missing a couple features. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Is this a joke? I said sites that dont ban me or require unnecessary personal data. Discord is exactly one of those shitty services. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I've given Discord exactly 0% of my personal identifying information, and I've reposted pornography there with 0 bans. Also, it still works as a website in desktop mode. I respect your choice and I'm sorry you haven't found a place to belong, but the discord sentiment in particular sounds like maybe a skill issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Sign up for an account on Tor Browser. They don't ask for your info because they already have it. Try signing up where they don't, and they'll ban you unless you give them your identity permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Done, used a tempInBox email to verify a slightly more permanent ProtonMail free account and then created a Discord Account for you, all on Tor. Username: SmoothedSquare@proton.me Password: Ergherew54! Same credentials for discord and proton until somebody logs in and changes them. Also, I assure you my ISP coop doesn't sell my info to Discord, lol. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Its via your fingerprint. Last time I tried to signup was a few years ago. They demanded a phone number. You didn't get asked a phone number? Have you made a post yet? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) If you use the website version it doesn't have fingerprint capability in the first place. On mobile website switch to desktop mode, log in, and then switch back to mobile version once you're in and it works fine. Sent a test message and everything permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Is this a joke? I said sites that dont ban me or require unnecessary personal data. Discord is exactly one of those shitty services. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I've given Discord exactly 0% of my personal identifying information, and I've reposted pornography there with 0 bans. Also, it still works as a website in desktop mode. I respect your choice and I'm sorry you haven't found a place to belong, but the discord sentiment in particular sounds like maybe a skill issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Sign up for an account on Tor Browser. They don't ask for your info because they already have it. Try signing up where they don't, and they'll ban you unless you give them your identity permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Done, used a tempInBox email to verify a slightly more permanent ProtonMail free account and then created a Discord Account for you, all on Tor. Username: SmoothedSquare@proton.me Password: Ergherew54! Same credentials for discord and proton until somebody logs in and changes them. Also, I assure you my ISP coop doesn't sell my info to Discord, lol. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Its via your fingerprint. Last time I tried to signup was a few years ago. They demanded a phone number. You didn't get asked a phone number? Have you made a post yet? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) If you use the website version it doesn't have fingerprint capability in the first place. On mobile website switch to desktop mode, log in, and then switch back to mobile version once you're in and it works fine. Sent a test message and everything permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) I've given Discord exactly 0% of my personal identifying information, and I've reposted pornography there with 0 bans. Also, it still works as a website in desktop mode. I respect your choice and I'm sorry you haven't found a place to belong, but the discord sentiment in particular sounds like maybe a skill issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Sign up for an account on Tor Browser. They don't ask for your info because they already have it. Try signing up where they don't, and they'll ban you unless you give them your identity permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Done, used a tempInBox email to verify a slightly more permanent ProtonMail free account and then created a Discord Account for you, all on Tor. Username: SmoothedSquare@proton.me Password: Ergherew54! Same credentials for discord and proton until somebody logs in and changes them. Also, I assure you my ISP coop doesn't sell my info to Discord, lol. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Its via your fingerprint. Last time I tried to signup was a few years ago. They demanded a phone number. You didn't get asked a phone number? Have you made a post yet? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) If you use the website version it doesn't have fingerprint capability in the first place. On mobile website switch to desktop mode, log in, and then switch back to mobile version once you're in and it works fine. Sent a test message and everything permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Sign up for an account on Tor Browser. They don't ask for your info because they already have it. Try signing up where they don't, and they'll ban you unless you give them your identity permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Done, used a tempInBox email to verify a slightly more permanent ProtonMail free account and then created a Discord Account for you, all on Tor. Username: SmoothedSquare@proton.me Password: Ergherew54! Same credentials for discord and proton until somebody logs in and changes them. Also, I assure you my ISP coop doesn't sell my info to Discord, lol. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Its via your fingerprint. Last time I tried to signup was a few years ago. They demanded a phone number. You didn't get asked a phone number? Have you made a post yet? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) If you use the website version it doesn't have fingerprint capability in the first place. On mobile website switch to desktop mode, log in, and then switch back to mobile version once you're in and it works fine. Sent a test message and everything permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Done, used a tempInBox email to verify a slightly more permanent ProtonMail free account and then created a Discord Account for you, all on Tor. Username: SmoothedSquare@proton.me Password: Ergherew54! Same credentials for discord and proton until somebody logs in and changes them. Also, I assure you my ISP coop doesn't sell my info to Discord, lol. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Its via your fingerprint. Last time I tried to signup was a few years ago. They demanded a phone number. You didn't get asked a phone number? Have you made a post yet? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) If you use the website version it doesn't have fingerprint capability in the first place. On mobile website switch to desktop mode, log in, and then switch back to mobile version once you're in and it works fine. Sent a test message and everything permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Its via your fingerprint. Last time I tried to signup was a few years ago. They demanded a phone number. You didn't get asked a phone number? Have you made a post yet? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) If you use the website version it doesn't have fingerprint capability in the first place. On mobile website switch to desktop mode, log in, and then switch back to mobile version once you're in and it works fine. Sent a test message and everything permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) If you use the website version it doesn't have fingerprint capability in the first place. On mobile website switch to desktop mode, log in, and then switch back to mobile version once you're in and it works fine. Sent a test message and everything permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) You did all this in Tor Browser? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Yes permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 2 points 2 years ago Well, thanks, I'll try again. Last time I tried, it locked my account before I even made a post, and wouldn't let me proceed without entering a phone number. Still, there's a risk they'll reestablish this policy. Their history matters. permalink fedilink source parent